I am passive aggressive, could you give me some advice?

I used to be just like that...I would hold it all in and I accepted a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I let people walk all over me too... BUT Something, somewhere along the line, changed that and now i don't. But here's my advice to you...try to make a concious effort to stop holding things in and talk about them before they get you to that point where you explode! Cause that's what will happen. Seriously, I have major issues with that now, and it's hard to control sometimes, I mean I'm not always like this, and not too much with strangers, but I have a hard time controlling my anger now...so it's kind of gone to the extreme opposite.

I have never heard of anyone being passive aggressive. It seems kind of contradictory. Your behavior, whatever you call it, is unacceptable. Children should not have to be exposed to yelling and screaming no matter what the reason. I would advise you to take some anger management classes as soon as possible, and, if that doesn't help, you should seek medical advice. And what does age have to do with drivers? There are reckless drivers in all age groups.

I would suggest a class in Karate' or self defense. Any of the other martial arts as well. They are not just about the fight as building convidence and discipline. The best thing I can say is make small steps. Fist try to stop yelling at your son, please. It is not good for him. Then then next time your hubby makes you mad, tell him. Don't put him on the defensive, just state that you are upset and tell him why. Then decide what to do with that. I use to be shy and would not speak up. Then When I got pregnant something changed in me. Now I am outspoken and do not know a stranger.

hmmmmmmmmmmmm just avoid the older drivers, they go so slow and sometimes can't even see anymore, accidents waiting to happen I figure I think I have that passive aggressive thing too maybe. Try to be nice to your son. Don't let people walk on you unless they are very small.

i am the same. I let people walk all over me. use me as well. I dont get mad. I cry inside. then still smile. been doing this for so long that one day, i dont want it any more. Everything turn out to worse. I learned to shout and be mad at everything. i even become physical. All the negative energies are coming out because it had been to long since i have released anything. All the pain and hurt all bottled up went out. I cant control it. But my family really knows me and loves me, they help me deal with it. They let me do it, be mad, cry and shout until i remove everything from my system. and make a fresh start and move on. I had to do it so i could live my life as i want it, without having to be afraid to speak up and let people know what im thinking and feeling. All you have to do is be honest to your family with everything and ask them for help if you need it.