love

yeah, maybe its like that sometimes Love is something you feel. If you love somebody you have to try to be nice and understand them and realize they are just human and cut em some slack sometimes. Thats true love I think. When somebody hurts you or does something stupid and you still love em. Don't let step all over you though. Protect yourself when you have to I think. Peole can be REALLY mean, often without even knowing they are doing that.

No I don't think it's healthy to hold anger inside and you need to respect yourself and teach the other person to respect you. If someone hurts you, you need to tell them that they hurt you. It's not good to try to hurt them back though, and it's never healthy to yell at or hit someone. Its nice to write a letter to explain to them how they hurt you.

i guess you dont really have to yell or look at her but she has to know she has hurt you, and you have to talk about things that hurt both your feelings, so that in the future, you both can avoid it or at least do something about it.

I'm not sure about that, just because your in love doesn't mean your not entittled to have feelings or express those feelings. There are ways you can do it though without hurting the other person. Ultimately if you get mad over something hide those feelings it brew up later and become a bigger issue than it needs to be. As the Bible says "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always serves. Love never fails."