Cheating Baby Daddy's

It could be better to leave your man while its too early.It's better to live a single mom than to have him as your husband but having a lot of responsibilities from different women.As we grow older, things will be complicated when you will not iron out the problem at present.

I am so sorry for what you are going through. My own daughter has three children with a man who "forgot" to mention his wife and four other children. I guess his wife doesn't understand him? LOL. Anyway, she must have gotten tired of him too because she left him too so now he has to go on to someone else. He is a very bad father. He doesn't want anything to do with his children but he does call once in a while for a b-o-o-t-y call. Thank heaven she says no these days. It's taken her quite a while to get over him. The wife of that guy who keeps contacting you, have you thought about a restraining order? Because if she keeps contacting you, it sounds like stalking and harrassment. Plus it seems a little creepy too.

I am sorry to see that you have been cheated. But, it is for you to call the police and bring such people before the law of the land. He is fit to be punished for his continued acts of cheating women like this. You must show him that you can give suitable punishment for his act.

you need to file papers right now and get him for everything you can get from him, major support and anything esle you can think of. do you need a car get his car, tell the court that you have noway to go get stuff for your baby because youdont have a car and you want his. OMG men like that should be shot. take him for everything before one of the others do.

Wow! That is awful. It sounds like this guy´s wife is very understanding though if she came to visit you in the hospital. I am very sorry you had to find out that your guy was such a loser, but better late than never, right? Congratulations on your new baby and I hope you recover from this with a sense of humor. :)

So it's better to get to know a guy very well before sleeping with him. It's for your own sake.

God you always hear about stuff like this on tv but you never figure it really happens but you proved me wrong. All I can say I have never been in any situation like that ever in my life and all I can say is I wish you the best of luck.

isnt it wrong how guys can do these type of things?im not going threw it now but almost 3 years ago i have gone threw something like this after i got pregnant with my daughter my boyfriend at the time was always running around come to find out he was tring to get with this girl and ended up getting her pregnant left her then got someone else pregnant and left her isnt sad how guys can be.

woooo hoooo man oh man I am sorry for what you are going thru. I can't believe this woman brought her children to see you in the hospital. You are leaving him immediately right? If not then you do need to call Jerry

Oh my goodness, that is terrible. How in the world did he hide his wife from you? He must have always been at your house. And if I would have found out that my husband had two children with other women while we were married then his butt would be out that door.

WOW!! that is bad. i would be getting that guy for child support so fast his head would spin!

I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this and I'm especially sorry that the "wife" was so thoughtless to show up at the hospital. This woman has to know that her husband is unfaithful and should have had some consideration for your feelings. After all, you didn't know he was married. Quite honestly, the first thing you should do is have yourself and your son tested for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. If he's been sleeping with that many women, you need to know if you've been infected with anything. And, since you just gave birth, you need to make sure that your son didn't catch anything through him or you. Secondly, if all is well medically, I think you should cut off contact with the father and his trailing family and raise your son with better values than his father has. Ordinarily, I would want to see a child have both a mother and a father but this father would not be a good influence. I also think you need to be more careful in the future and not sleep with a man unless he's married to you. That way, if he's lied, you can have him prosecuted for bigamy. You really do need to be free of this man, though. He's not the kind of influence you want in either of your sons' lives. Of course, I don't know your entire situation and I haven't walked in your shoes but if you can take care of your boys without him, I'd recommend getting as far away from him as possible. You don't want your sons to turn out like this man. He obviously doesn't have the first clue about how to respect a woman or how to love. He just uses women for what he wants and moves on. The other reason you should stay clear of him is because he is endangering you and your sons with his lifestyle. If he sleeps with this many women, eventually it is going to catch up to him healthwise and if you are free of disease now, you could be infected later. Don't put yours and your children's lives in danger for this man. He isn't worth it.

OHHHHHHH MYYYYYYY..I am so sorry you are having to go through that. I could not even imagin the drama in your life right now and you don't need that with having a new baby. I can't believe his wife would come to the hospital. So what had he been telling her over these last few years.

hi emtstacy it is very difficult for a single mother to brought up the kids. i thought u should give divorce to ur husband. marriage is based on faith &love. u should start a new life. give him divorce &start ur new life. hope for the best.

I am so sorry to hear that you got used this way! I also believe that distance is probably the best thing all around for you and the bum's wife. Of course, he thinks that you and him are still an item. It is a male ego thing! I do hope that you go after him for child support. That will put a chill on his desire to be around. It will also put a strain on his marraige, therefore, you don't want to be on friendship terms with his wife. Cut those ties now! I really do wish you the best!

I feel for you here.I never had to deal with that type of problem but I was once set up to have made to look like I was messing around with a guy who showed up at my house . And my boyfriend used the time to go mess with 5 women in a week and halfs time.One being my neighbors sister!If you would like to have visitations with your child and hers, then have her meet you in a place like a park where there is a playground and for good measure have a couple of girlfriends go with you so to talk with and they can help the uneasiness of the deal.I hope you find a real man to love you and only you ,everyone deserves a good man or woman in thier lives.Good luck.

Wow, what a mess you got into and even it's not your fault it's his. It's a shame that he didn't tell you the truth I know you had to be hurt finding out like this. I can't believe that his WIFE actually called you and brought their kids. I feel sorry for you and wish you luck in whatever you decided to do with him .

That's too bad. I belong to a monogamous culture and that kind of story is not so much heard of.. I wouldn't know what to do if that happens to me.

My godmother's son...good lord. Five children, four mothers. Once he was with his girlfriend, whom he had a 1 and 1/2 year old daughter with. He got his girlfriend pregnant, and then, within a week knocks up her best friend across the street! The two women were actually in the hospital giving birth at the same time!

I have definitely experienced a Jerry springer episode in my past. The only difference between you and I is that I was the wife in the picture. I will tell you from experience, stand strong and don't let crazy ideas of needing the perfect two parent home to raise your child enter your head. I know right now that may seem easy because you are angry with the dad, but the older your child gets the harder it becomes not to fall into that old trap or even a new one with another man just as bad. Give yourself some time to be alone with your child. Remind yourself for as long as you need to how much you hate him in order to stay away from him. Then when you are finished hating him let it go. This way your child can never blame you for keeping them away from their father. Good luck! I know what a struggle this is. Keep your head up.