Ever been cheated on..while married?

Kinda depends on the situation. If he consistantly cheats with no guilt or remorse, then he has a big problem that will only rip the marriage apart if it isn't dealt with. If he isn't willing to deal with it, there isn't much you can do about it. You have to protect yourself if he's sleeping around, because you don't need to catch anything from him. If he did it once in a moment of stupidity, and feel bad and wants to make things right by you, then by all means, give him a chance. But I wouldn't just leave it at the "Sorry, babe. I won't do it again". Get in to see a church counselor, or something. You have to face your feelings of betrayel and anger also, or they will eat at you. And he needs direction in his life to find out why he strayed.

It is really ideal to have "perfect marriage". But the reality speaks... "no such thing". I want to drop this simple message that they always say.. "Fool me once shame on you...Fool me twice shame on me".