What is the hardest thing in life?
@ramongonzales (24)
Philippines
March 19, 2007 12:08am CST
Before in my teenage time, I ask some of my friend about this question. They can't answer me the exact answer that I want. Until I reached my age 26. This time I found the answer. For me the hardest thing in life is to make the right decision. For those peolpe who are interested why I say this. Email me. mixedinfo@yahoo.com
Share your opinion too. For you, what is the hardest thing in life?
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@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
For me part of growing up..because were 2 in the family 1 boy and 1 girl im the eldest (I am a girl) they are so very strict and most of the time when I came from the school I will never talk or to see my childhood friends to play with them. I never experience to play at the street without my family see us with my brother playing. But soon I realize because were 2 in the family they want us to protect. I think if I'm pregnant at my teenage years the hardest thing to say also to my parents is I'm pregnant. Because I see some of the ractions of my friends parents and as well as my relatives.
@sarahdell (130)
• United States
21 Mar 07
it is easy to be happy.. you just have to be contented with what you have.. contentment is the key to happiness.. if you are content with what you have, happiness will follow.. i hope you find your happiness..
@iinvention (646)
• India
20 Mar 07
The hardest thing in my life is setting a target and working properly and continuously towards that goal. At the starting, i will do it correctly, but when the time passes, i become lazy and slower. I will plan things well, but the execution is the problem
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@cuterat (296)
• India
19 Mar 07
It is correct that every decision you make in your life is very important and one loose decision can turn your world upside down. But from the way you have posted here in your discussion it seems you have some specific reason to say so? What is it? Did you have a very hard experience?
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@manish243236 (591)
• India
19 Mar 07
to do the hardest thing as said by ur liked ones....at the hardest time in ur life when u are deprived of basic entities like health, money etc....that may be anything
but when u succeed at that time...then u r the real hero
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@myckaella (25)
• Kuwait
19 Mar 07
the hardest thing in my life was when i loss my job and been broken hearted at the same time.it is really hard to over come all of it and you don't know whom to trust to tell what you really feel.
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
19 Mar 07
In my younger years,,the hardest thing for me was to grow up,,i just wanted to party and have a good time..I also made very bad decisions..thank goodness nothing too bad that ruined my life,,,but bad all the same..then i got pregnant with my son..and that woke me up real fast like..so now the hardestthing in life to me is wondering if im being the best parent ever,,saying no to him when he wants everything that i can give.,.but i want him to apprecciate things and myself..and respect as well..I dont want to be my parents,.,because if u knew my childhood you would understand..hummso yea ill say that,,the hardestthing in my life is trying not to be my parents,,and being the best mother/and dad for that matter i can be..
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
We are faced with discissions almost every day, we somehow have to develop a system for us to deal with choises. You have a valid choise of the hardest thing in life. It is your discissions that will shape your present and future.
@kmyra1980 (59)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
i think the hardest thing in life is owning up to your mistakes and not blaming others for the bad things that happen to you.
@manmaxman (850)
• India
20 Mar 07
according to my opinion i think the hardest thing in life is to say your best frd that i love u , this is the thing that make ur frdship no longer or can make it to storng, but the disicion of it is to diffecult becoz u dont want to lose ur frdship ..............................
@gangadevi (92)
• India
19 Mar 07
for me the hardest thing in life is to forget my bitter days
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@me_reenu (17)
• India
20 Mar 07
For me, the hardest thing is to loose your near n dear ones. When you loose the emotional support of a loved one, its the most heart breaking phase of life.
@LivingADream (48)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I have a problem with forgiveness. I can look over a couple of mistakes but once you screw me over I'm done. How can I forgive you if I can't trust you?
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@hirendrasingh_c (1)
• India
20 Mar 07
yes I am agree that Making Right Decision is Hard Thing but Right Decision itself is Very subjective.Deciding some decision is right or wrong without having any reference is very difficult.I think decision is right or wrong is always With Respect to what end result u wnat?
So I think for individuals first off all have to decide his/her Purpose/Objective/long term goal of life. What he/she want to be at the end of life?What give him/her emmense pleasure ?
After deciding objective/longterm goal/purpose than he/she has to take decision in various situation of his day to day life will be comparitively easy bcoz He know what ultimately he want to achive so which decision will help him to reach his ultimate desire.
So I think for me Defining crystal clear purpose/objective/Long term goal of life is Hardest thing.
@sirensanssmile (3764)
• Netherlands
20 Mar 07
The hardest thing in life is knowing what to do. Trying to invision 10 years in the future and see where you are. Trying to decide upon a goal in life and go forth to achieve it.
@tricia_toh (112)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 07
I agree with you. The hardest thing is to make the right decision. I feel that it's hard because I've made decisions I've regretted and I never knew which was the right one at the time I made it. If only we would know what's best for us and what would turn out well then we can make the right decision.
@teamfreddy (150)
• Mexico
20 Mar 07
I don't agree with you. The right answer is staying honest against yourself. Then the decision to make the right choices is not that difficult anymore. At about more then double your age, trust me if I tell you that I know what I am talking about.
@stefan_diego (556)
• Canada
20 Mar 07
Growing up, the hardest thing for me is understanding adults, I felt so deprived of so many things. But now i find it hard to understand teenagers. Ironic huh?
@ElementalCaster (19)
• Singapore
20 Mar 07
For me the hardest is growing up. Your struggle with trying to have it your way or listening to good advice...and your graps at trying to understand this world
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
The hardest thing in life is keeping alive because if you dont know how to survive, then you dont become alive.