living together
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
7 responses
@god_spear (498)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
Im not in favor of it because i believe that befor4e a man and a woman should live together they must first get married and if they were catholics they must. Well different people have different views on it and that was my opinion maybe because im a true christian or devoted catholic (not to offend )people who are presntly living together without the benefit of marriage.But if they will be living happily and knowing the character of each other its much better than living together in marriage but always quarelling with each other. Not helping each other and not loving truly together.
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@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
Yes, i'm open about it. One way of getting to know more of the person really. When you are living on one roof, there are so many things you'll discover about your partner. Things that you don't see on the person when u-r just going out together, stuffs like that. . . well, i did this 2 years ago with my boyfriend and it was an advantage really. (",)
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
you have a point but i think you also know that religious people are really against it. but you have a point in there because there are lot of couples who got married and thought they know each other enough but still broke up in the end filed an annulment or divorce.
@minty3 (592)
• Nigeria
19 Mar 07
i don't think living together is a good idea. when you live together, none willbe motivated to act fast on the marriage or wedding plans cos you're already living together as man and wife. secondly, you begin to see your weaknesses that might discourage you from tying the knot.
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@ryleesmama (560)
• United States
29 Mar 07
My husband and I lived together for a while before we got married. Then we started going back to church and moved out. Our relationshp grew so much after we moved apart. Being a Christian we decided to be a good example and move out and not to live together anymore before we were married.
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@tallpaulno44a (1574)
• United States
19 Mar 07
Well, I kind of feel that it is up to them and it is not my business. So I guess I am in favor, if that's what they want.
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