Singleness!
By cutecruise
@cutecruise (8)
Philippines
10 responses
@divishth (33)
• India
1 Apr 07
Single is freedom.
Single is Life !!
Single is passion
Single i wanna die.
I am 100% single and i love it.......
I am happy and contented that i am single and free from all the pain-in-the-neck tantrums of being in a boring relationships.
One should not force itself to fall in love just beacuse you think you need to wait for a while, maybe GOD's having a hard time searching for the heart that deserves the kind of love you can give...
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I have been single most of my life. This is so even though I have been married twice. I don't mind being single and wouldn't mind having a partner again. Either way, I am resigned to living a happy and properous life. I have things I want to have and do, and I will still do them single or whatever. All this crap about being happier just because you are in a relationship is nonsense. It completely depends on the individual(s) as to how happy they might be. My life is great either way..single or connected to someone.
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Well said! I am single too, never been married but have had relationships in the past. It's quite lonely at times but still I think that there are the same pros and cons to being single and being married. One cannot claim that one situation is is better than the other. It is only a matter of accepting one's choice and the responsibility that goes with it.
@lissienpaul (478)
• Philippines
1 Apr 07
Being single has its advantage and disadvantage. I have a sister who doesn't bother to get married even now that she's 40. But I, considering that I am her sister, feels that I will be better with a husband.
To compare, she functions well in all she does. May not have ended in more successful steps due to lack of fund in all her projects but she 's well-driven by her dreams that she takes full control of it without the hassle of a husband's comments and baby's cry at night.
While she functions well with that, I am better with family. I love to cook, clean, and take care of the babies and stay beautiful for my husband. I function well with that. I feel fulfilled doing all those things. I can't even imagine myself away from them even for the whole day. Tha's why being a housewife became a choice until now.
The disadvantage though is that, a single person, especially a religious christian, serves God full time. A single person can be the soceity's first contributor in so many ways because he or she is not surrounded by any other duties that calls for immediate attention.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
6 Dec 07
Yes singleness matters to us. Singleness is a sort of imprisoning some one or some selves. Human being is known as social animal and a social animal could not live alone. God created us for each other. God loves those who love others. And God helps those who help themselves. Help your self to not keep you alone and single. Every male is for female and every female is for male. This is natural law and this is real life. Every living thing like plants, insects, birds, and others can not live single as the singleness matters to every living in this huge and gigantic universe.
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
28 Nov 07
Hi cuecruise! I have been married for over 12 years and recently got seperated. I am a working woman and stay alone. I always see guys (even married ones and those even old enough to be my father) trying to flirt with me and asking me for a date and more. Now eventhough I am steady with my boyfriend I wonder why some guys think they are the gift of god every female should possess.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
I am single...single parent..LOL...It doenst actually bother me because I find not having a husband less hassle. But as people we do long for intimacy and closeness aside from what we experience with our family. So I guess one day in the future I may come to want a life partner once I am emotionally ready.