girls,good or bad?
By born2die_636
@born2die_636 (1)
India
March 19, 2007 1:41am CST
It all started when i was talking to girl whom i never saw, never spokent o before, she was my close friend's best friend from another school.she used to mesage me and leter we started to talk over the phone, then all of a sudden one day she message me saying, "you know what, i couldn't start thinking of you today", i did not reply for the sms, because i didn't want to get my self into anything, then later on next day, it was raining so heavily and there was a black out, then she called, we were specking for about an house when she told he needs to tell me something, and like a fool, i told that even i need to tell her something without having anything to tell then ., she went on saying that ok, i dont belive in boy's telling girls first, so i am going to say it a,d then she proposes, i was stunned and then she asked what i say, not wanting to hurt her feeling i accepted her proposal......
the story not yet over...
then, after a few days of talking she told me not to tell her best friend ie., my close friend that she and me were going out and asked my to tell her that i like her and asking my friend to help me out, i did not take time to think why she asked me to do that but i did it.then things started to work out between us, on the phone she used to go on saying that she is hugging the pillow and she is like i am hugging you,my love to her developed.i was lost in my own world, then i went out for a movie with her,i couldn't stop looking at her eyes,my first date, we holded hands,after a week after the movie, she dumped me saying that i was one year older to her, this was when i was 16,i couldn't stop feeling bad, for that, i was stuck up thinking of her for 6 months, till now her best friend thinks i proposed to her.but somehow i feel there's always a place for her in my heart.
has anything like that happened to youno offense to girls, but i feels so all girls are the same what about you?
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29 responses
@saket_123sharma (1063)
• India
19 Mar 07
hello buddy u dont have any right to say whethe girls are good or bad if u want to know about this answer then just see how is your mom and your sister then u will get your answer whether girls are good or bad and if you want to earn som good handsome amount over here then just reply me and be my friend i will explain you how to earn a good handsome amount of dollars heres
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@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Mar 07
Its high time you telle your friend about this and clear yourself the mistakes you did was a hasty decision in a fraction of second.Your big mistake was hiding the relationship from your friend you had with that girl.Friends are caring person to one another.But dont estimate all girls to be bad.being a girl i feel annoying for what this girl has did to you.Personally i know a family friend of mine..she was struggling with her parents for more than 5 years to hold the hands of her lover.She suceeded and happy now.
come out of this issue because there is always a better propects waiting for you.
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@rupeshjamwal83 (10)
• India
19 Mar 07
Every girl have diffrent behavior . No one knows wat going on in their mind.
@jijivvv (15)
• China
19 Mar 07
i'm sorry for your bad experience.But me,as a girl,i don't agree with the saying that"all the girls are the same".i mean,
they do have some commons,however every single one are different.
i always believe that time can tell everything.umm...i advise you just let the girl who has crash on you or the one you have good feelings on be your friend,and then figure out whether you like her,no``love her,more exactly before you make your decition. Of course you need some time to get rid of her from you mind. if a girl propose to you without even laying eyes on or know very little about you,i think she might feel lonely would probably dump you when she find somethng new.This is the negatave side,of course it has the passitive one.It's not a bad experience if you can learn from it,and i believe you will. hehe
females are complicated,some got tons of vanity,while some really care about you.
the last thing,don't ignore your closed friends.
hope you can find a girl who is pretty,nice,thoughtful,and who suit for you,really care about your feelings soon. kakaka....~~~
Best wishes
Queenie
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@Capndon (337)
• India
19 Mar 07
Well this seems to be about 10 years ago. Are you still living in the same rut with the same baggage? Get over it mister. I suggest you call her up & cleanup with her. Tell her how you felt about her & how you feel about her & be honest about it. Tell her that & leave her alone for a while. For all you know she might be feeling the exact same way as you do. If she's already married or whatever still call her & tell her you are ssorry you let her go. You could have tried to bring her back in your life then too but you did not. Let her live her life with the happiness that you still feel good. Good Luck.
@Capndon (337)
• India
19 Mar 07
Also just because one girl did something like that to you you can't say all girls are like that. Think of your mom & my mom & all the mothers in the world. Could we say the same thing about them too ? Even mothers are females aren't they? No offence meant here but I just wanted a critical comparison.
@joy1982 (226)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
not all girls are bad.. maybe the girl dumped you because thats what she feels.. and thats good that she dumped you earlier because as it takes longer your feelings for her would be hardly to forget..
just keep your self busy so you can easily forget the girl..i know its painful on your part.. but you have to do something to forget it..
@gangadevi (92)
• India
19 Mar 07
i think that teeenages are not good enough to take a right decision.you'll just beleive what you see. you should be able to analyze whether it is love or infactuation.then only you should involve.putting blame on others is not at all good. you should be wise.
never think that all girls come under the same category. situations may change them. there are so many women who are all on off-screen supporting their spouse.
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@gangadevi (92)
• India
19 Mar 07
i think that teeenages are not good enough to take a right decision.you'll just beleive what you see. you should be able to analyze whether it is love or infactuation.then only you should involve.putting blame on others is not at all good. you should be wise.
never think that all girls come under the same category. situations may change them. there are so many women who are all on off-screen supporting their spouse.
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@kendough (20)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
first off, you cant say that girls are all the same because they're not.
your experience sounded very familiar and then i realized i had a friend who had that same experience a few years back. he met this girl in class, she was timid and shy but that's not her true self. it turned out that the girl was agressive and manipulative. they ended up together but whenever we asked our friend how they hooked up he tells us this fake story because in reality the girl masterminded the plot.
there are some girls who are like that but i dont think there are that many. most girls i know are fun to hang around with, very nice and kind, smart, understanding, and are great listeners too. so dont fret, you'll find that dream girl of yours someday
@sudhir4441 (668)
• India
19 Mar 07
yes very recently, when she needed me she was with me, and when she didnt she said what ever happened was because of me, she was not involved..i became a lier...
@kyran_12 (643)
• India
19 Mar 07
i am still very confuse finding out the truth about the girls, i had a girlfriend 1st time ant at the last when i was in 12 th grade and that was about 6 years back, but then i never understood her mind,,,,,why? 1st anything i do after class was her most concern as she was my classmate, then spending time with other friends specially girls were not allowed and she was ok with spending her own time with them, i had never been in relationship before so may be i thought, but then after her also when i broke up with her n thought about not having relation ever , some girls approched with some weird things to take over, and then i tried also to understand them but always failed , ther are so many things that i am so scared about talking to girl now a days and i dont figure out why,,,its total mistry for me............funny but truth......anyways if you find anything interesting then please share with me.......cheers
@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
I dont think, that all girls are all the same dude!
Same with boys..
People in this world are different, we dont have to compare a one person to another coz we're all different man kind here...
Perhaps, yeah we have something in common with some particular persons, but it doesnt really mean that we have the same mind, the same heart, the same outlook in life!
We should respect the differences between each other!
Have a nice day ahead!
@xu530923 (28)
• China
20 Mar 07
Feeling is so complex.Swwet-heards on net is an example.Most of them fall in love without seeing eathother.I am so puzzled,why they can trust a stranger,and communicate in heart.Is it really inpossable to fall in love at the first sight.But I don't think it'll last a long time.if they get close,many troubles will come.They will find so many things is not the same as their thought.Then ,disapartment maybe the result.
@Shwetanefy (20)
• India
19 Mar 07
It's very good question that girls,good or bad,I think nobody can give answer that question .... even i hv a good friend,her short name is DP,At the start she was very good by nature,she was always help to me whenever i was in trouble,she introduesed to a guy his name is Nefy,he is amazing guy,know we are very good friends,we always help to each other.for a wonderful friend i always thankful to DP,she is my one and only friend......
So guys girls are not bad always....sometimes they help your and give a good friend..................
@kclaret59 (587)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
NOOOO!! wer'e not that bad!!! maybe she is but not all of us. it's really wrong to generalize things.. an dthen , let me say this to you.. i think i have already read this story.. is it just a deja vu or you just wrote it somewhere else??