i need help!!!

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I really need help of my fellow mylottians. I have one good freind. We were very good friend say about 1 year back. We met at workplace. After that our friendship started and it grew like anything. Ours was a very healthy friendship. There was nothing else in it. He had a GF. But in november ,2005 they broke up due to caste problem .My friend told me about this before that this could happen any time. I felt sorry for him. After some days things changed and he was behaving somewhat differently. Just after 15 days after his break up, he suddenly proposed me. I declined. He thought that as he had a relationship before, i declined him. I made him realize that its only a rebound. there is nothing like that. But he was reluctant to listen He persuded me again and agaun. I thought it may be bad for him and also me. I changed my job and moved to another city. But still we were good friends.after i moved, our contact seemed to reduced. For last 2-3 months we have really spoken to each other on phone. I also felt bad as I was ,losing my friend. For last 10 days we even didn't exchanged a single Hi/Hello...Suddenly on saturday he called and told me I'm really avoiding him now. It was not the case. Next day he told ok, we will remain as friends, I'll only marry according to my parents' choice in my caste. I thought it good. again he said tell me that you declined my proposal as i'm from lower caste. But it was never the case with me. I thought him just has friend. Tell me what sud i do? I wanted to not to speak with him again.. It hurts me also. But whenever I don't talk with him, he feels very bad and thinks I'm avoiding him. What is his real motive? When he cn live without keeping contact with his GF, why not me? please help me.. I need your help