i want an advice of wat i do next
By rmtrevs
@rmtrevs (9)
India
March 19, 2007 4:05am CST
hi
i am a teenager doing my bachelores degree. i have come up into a problem of which i cant find a solution. one of my friends(a boy) used to call me and we started liking each other. he used to be really hot through the phone and soon i realised that it was not a fair relationship and i stopped it there. then after a month a guy on whom i had a crush,proposed me really seriously, i gave a positive answer and we were really gud to each other and loved each other very much . but one day he calls and say that i am cheat and he cant tolerate me anymore. actually both of them were friends. i dont know wat to do now. eventhough he hates me . i still love him. he is the one i have loved. this problem is making me mad. now they have started publishing it all over the college. all my friends r against me now saying that i cheated him.
i cant even walk across the corridor because of this shame.
plss help me. give an advice so that i can back to my life.
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4 responses
@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Mar 07
This problem can be sort out only if you sit and talk with your lover instead feeling.Explain the whole thing happened between that boy so that your lover will understand that you truely loved only him.How can your friends be so rude to you this is the time they should support you rather than blaming you.They are not real friends what all i can say.Try talking to him first
@kaevielf (245)
• China
20 Mar 07
Your future does not end there. Cheer up. Everyone makes mistakes. They are avenues to draw lessons from. Just don't mind the gossip, time will come, before you even notice it, it's over. The best thing you should do now is to focus on your studies. Those guys are not worth the time. You are still young, there will be more wonderful things to come to your life.
@cutekristine (526)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
You are in a very complicated situation but to be fair with everyone, you are not a cheater. Upon reading your story, you were talking to this guy before the other proposes to you so why call you a cheater. its not really fair in your side, the only thiong i can say to you is cheer up and dont mind them. Since they were friend, they might be sharing notes about you and for it to stop, you also need to stop being with them. Your still young and you can find someone who deserves your love. As to your friends, true friends will never despise or hate you so better think if they are really your friends. Just be honest and be yourself.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
dont be angry of what i will advice to you. Those guys are loser, what you will do is to live your life without. Finish your study. Although you are shy because other people is making a gossip out of it,you have to face it. time will come and you will surpass this. I hope you learned a lesson. Just make a right decision this time. You know i think those guys started that gossip about you, and when guys are acting this way, i guess they are not guys, they are gays.
