did he cheat on you?

it's hard to answer this because this has never happened to us. but if i were to see my boyfriend with another girl, it would be very hard for me to forgive him. it would probably take a long time before i could. and it would be hard to go on with the relationship. a scenario like that would make me lose my trust in him and the one thing that's essential in a relationship, much more than love, is trust. forgiving is one thing. but staying together and trusting one another despite what happened is another matter.

well depends how you guys talk about the issue.but for me cheating is unforgivable mistake or if its forgivable the distroyed trust is hard to build again and you know its very hard to stay in a relationship when theres no more trust.Its hard to heal a broken heart..yes its a process...a long process...

Many people believe in 'once burn twice shy'. However, a number believe in giving your partner a second chance. I am a believer of the latter group. I believe if you do love someone, then you need to give them a second chance. People mistakes. Some learn from it some don't. By giving your partner a second chance, you are giving them an opportunity to change and better themselves. However, if they repeat it again, then it is no longer worth another chance. It only means they do not love you enough to put in the effort to make that change. I hope my opinion helps you im making the right decision on partner cheating on you.

My opinion is that even if you can talk about it, that cheating is such a bad thing to do to someone that it's not possible for the relationship to continue. If you forgive him once, then he will assume you will forgive him again. Talking with him will not stop him from doing it again. The truth is, he was consumed by lust and didn't care even for a moment about his true love feelings for you. I was cheated on and tried to forgive and continue the relationship but even though I tried so hard, I never could trust him again. Whenever I called him and he didn't answer his phone I was petrified that he was with someone else.

I believe that we need to give a person another chance or a second chance, but it really depends on what he has done. But for me cheating is not acceptable, if my husband will cheat on me, I will never ever forget that, yes, I can forgive him in a later time but i will never ever forget that. And that one thing I asked him not to do because that would be the possible reason of our separation.

But tell me something he was not thinking of you when he cheated and there is no way that he loves you loyalty and respect has alot to do with a relationship you will not trust him again and you will always suspect on him, your relationship will never be the same dought will always haunt you because of what he did.

see u can accept him but first diagnosed that he again didnt ditched u and for him how much u r valuable, u take the decision by both mind and head