What is the hardest thing for you to say? "I am sorry" or "I love you" ?

Philippines
March 19, 2007 4:59pm CST
For some reason, there are people who have a hard time expressing themselves, especially if its all about telling a person how you feel. Is it really more difficult to say "i am sorry" since you made a mistake and have hurt the other person or is it harder to say "i love you" since it is normal for us to be scared of being rejected?
8 responses
7nicole1
@7nicole1 (1633)
• Canada
19 Mar 07
I have a harder time saying Im sorry then I do saying I love you. The only reason for this is I hate being wrong like alot of other people.
embassyprincess
@embassyprincess (37)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
i agree. saying or uttering I'm sorry is not really hard but its accepting that you're wrong makes it difficult.
christiana25
@christiana25 (181)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
The words 'i love you' don't come easy for me..so's the feeling. It takes awhile for me to feel love for someone. It would take so much before i could admit myself to the feeling and so much longer to say it.
lacchiga
@lacchiga (51)
• India
19 Mar 07
it s very hard to say i love u its difficult to say that people with diffrent attitude respond in different ways, soryy is easy word and most populer word used ,thinking how many times i have used it ,but use this for some reasone
successonline4all
@successonline4all (80)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
Never ever say if you don't meant it... say what you feel and do what said!!!!
gsgonzalez2007
@gsgonzalez2007 (1004)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
For me, nothing is hard. I grew up with my parents who taught me to say sorry everytime i make a mistake. If a person is narrow minded, always insist that he is right and don't want to accept defeat or mistake, then it is really hard for him to say "SORRY". It is easy to say "I LOVE YOU" when you know it is coming from your heart when you really mean it, and when you really love the person. It is hard to say " I LOVE YOU " when you do not mean it or you really don't love the person. So it depends on the situation and it depends on the person. If the person is outspoken, broadminded or confident then it is easy for him to utters those words: SORRY & ILOVEYOU. Have a nice day!
myahw20
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
21 Mar 07
If this is about the person i love,nothing is hard for me..i can say i love you as often as i like and i do lower down my pride to apologize everytime i have to..
JellyBeans
@JellyBeans (639)
• Canada
19 Mar 07
The hardest thing for me before was saying i love you... But now i can just say it. The reason i love you is harder to say is because it is something of being afraid of what the reaction of the other person is. saying your sorry is much easier to say because you know the other will forgive you!
vashstampede992000
@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
Well for me, the hardest thing to say is the words, "I am Sorry" coz i am not the type of a guy who can be very acceptable with lots of things, its hard for me to accept my mistakes, i dont know why, they also said that i have a high pride.. But saying I love you is more easy for me, coz i am a sweet guy still..