Again thank you
By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
March 19, 2007 6:45pm CST
Again I have to say thank to my lovely Friends for supporting me. I know I say thank you a lot but they deserve it and I am a Person who appreciates the closeness and caring of my Friends
I was attacked in a Discussion of my Friends today for no reason just for giving my Opinion It upset me as I did not ask for that sort of attack, to make things worse it upset my poor Friend that started the Discussion and she apologised. That upset me more as she should never have been put in that situation. It was not her fault that a member on here decided to go for the Attack
So the friend knows who she is and I will not say her Name as she moght want me to
I love you and it was not your Fault Sweet,
In the Meantime I have been back to the Discussion only to find that my Friends once again came to my Defence and stuck by me and the Friend who wrote the Discussion
They helped her defend me
You all know who you are and from the Bottom of my Heart thank you and for the Members that think they need to attack Members for no reason this is Friendship. Friends stick together and again I need to voice I am such a Lucky Person to have all these loving Friends
I love you all
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25 responses
@raydene (9871)
• United States
20 Mar 07
Gabs, You did not deserve to be attacked.I was kinda shocked by it and had to get away from the computer for a few minutes.I can not understand why anyone would go at someone just giving an opinion.He must be having a really bad day but he was very unfair.
I will always value your's and my other myLot friends opinions before I would anyone else's anyway.
I didn't feel bad for me I was just worried about you and I hate...hate...hate when someone hurts someone I love.
You are a sweet soul and deserve all our love and I for one am so thankful that you wandered into my path.I never had my own angel before and it's a special thing to have
Thanks Angel for the sweet discussion.
Hugs
Raydene
@shelagh77 (3643)
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20 Mar 07
Well, I missed all this as I have been ill and not here but all I can think is that a little band of spoilers have entered mylot in the same way as they enter chat rooms and forums and if they can upset enough people and make them leave they will be happy.
Don't let them get to you, at least you have opinions, and staying power my love.
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
20 Mar 07
I believe that we should say thank you to our friends especially when they do something nice for us and we appreciate what they do, and you are right your friend should never have been put in any awkward position like she was either. Real friends do stick together that is true Gabs, and we should be there for each other, I do not know what is wrong with some of the members here lately attacking other members for no reason at all!! I love all my friends too they mean a lot to me and I appreciate them being here for me.
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
I'm not sure about what thread you're talking about, gabs, but I know how it is to be attacked for no reason at all. I once posted my respond to a friend's discussion and this friend misunderstood my response because her knowledge of english is rather poor. She began attacking me with her comment. I dropped down the matter and didn't bother to explain further. There's no sense in trying to justify what I said because she will not understand anyway. You have many friends here gabs. Just ignore whoever is doing this to you. I love you too, gabs.
@rainbow (6761)
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20 Mar 07
Well my darling, I'm so glad you finally calmed down, I reallythought you were considering leaving mylot as a result of this.
The sad thing is sometimes people get over enthusiastic and appear rude, sometimes even for no reason. I'm so sorry that you had to put up with this kind of abuse, as you know I kept away on purpose as i do not want people like that visiting the same places I do but it was awful.
I hope your other friend fels better altough I am sure she had no intentions of causing problems on this kind of subject which is often posted here.
It's such a shame that a few people ruin time here for so many.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
20 Mar 07
Well you know I was considering leaving as I was talking to you and you where the one that also calmed me and another good Friend phoned me straight away
But I am always the first to say do not let them scare you away so I have to stick to that myself.
Love and Hugs to you
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
20 Mar 07
Hmmmmm .... don't let the wild turkeys get you down. I tried looking to see if I could find the discussion, but either it vanished, or I just didn't look in the right place.
Maybe post the link to it in the S&M forum. (Inside joke here - but those in our circle know what I'm talking about here).
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I wonder if they also cleaned out all of his discussions & discussions he replied to as well. A sure sign that he got himself banned.
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
20 Mar 07
Gabs I have no idea what happened. I've only been here for an odd minute or two each day, just to check on a couple of discussions and to catch anything new from special friends.
I can't imagine why anyone would be rude or nasty to you. You've never upset anyone and given any cause for people to get upset. You are the myLot darling.
Whoever it was who upset you heaped coals on himself. He evidently didn't know how many friends you have and how outraged we'd all be. If I find him, I'll let him know how precious you are to us all.
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@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
20 Mar 07
No need for thanks gabs. You are such a wonderful and caring person that it is always a pleasure to something for you in return. I read the topic and it was enough to upset anybody. I myself was upset at how rude that person was to you but I hope you can now put it all behind you. Hugs...xx.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I hope it was reported. If you both have this common friend, perhaps it's time to see if this one member of the MLPD can momentarily come out of retirement & get those claws in action?
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@rossdcurran (151)
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20 Mar 07
Aww Gabs so sorry top hear about this. Hope you are ok xx
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@Tir_Na_nOg (508)
• Ireland
20 Mar 07
I'm happy that the abuse has been romoved gabs. You certainly didn't deserve it. Now I suggest that we thank myLot also for their great work and making sure that this site is abuse free it gives me great confidence in them.
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@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
21 Mar 07
You should be able to express your opinion openly without being attacked for it. It´s totally unfair and against the rules here.
I´m sorry this has happened to you, I know your replies are never offensive so there´s absolutely no reason to verbally attack you. Sorry for your friend too.
I haven´t read the discussion you mentioned, but I know you wouldn´t exaggerate something like this.
Please don´t give it too much thought. That´s just what these kind of people want.
Big (((hug))) from one of your friends.
XXX love
Dana
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
27 Mar 07
We love you to gabs. There will always be people like that out there. They are unhappy. I have had that happen to me too, and it hurts. But, we do care about you, so forget that issue, and don't let it rob you of today's happiness. ((((HUGS))))
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@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
20 Mar 07
It doesn't matter where you go these days,there is always someone who has to be nasty.I haven't seen that discussion,but when I find it I will have my say too.Ignore this person my friend you have so many people here that love you.Don't let one idiot spoil your time in Mylot.love and hugs my dear friend.
@Mecboy (1050)
• United States
20 Mar 07
WEll, it starts in the forum, those guys are from forums.
Take me a weirdo for instance.
Well, Its starts from spam talk of Video Game Competition.
Battlefield 2 was a huge one.
One guy would say, Suck my*** you suck NEWBIE!
so those people pass on their bad words here.
THats how words like that get here.
They are forum talkers. not all are bad.
I don't want to send a link but sure.
escapeclan.net
these are guys are great, I retired from there,
well heres a medal of your friendship. congradulations.
Made by United States Middle Coalition and Middle Eastern Coalition, Nice fighting and defending of Friends.
During heavy artillery.
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@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
26 Mar 07
Hey Gabs,
I'm reading some of discussions you started and I have to say that you must be a very kind a good person.
I meet persons like you very seldom and I'm happy to meet people like you from time to time.
You deserve all the friends you have.
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
20 Mar 07
that avatar is very strange and lovely
anyway
just practice ignoring jerks who feel a need to attack folks for no reason
don't even waste a second of your life on em
"overlook trifles and you always may" Emerson
