What will I do coz my ex-girlfriend keeps on calling and texting me.........

Philippines
March 19, 2007 8:29pm CST
It's been five months since my ex-gf and i broke up. The good thing is that we talked about the problem and arrived to become good friends. I decided not to see her for now coz everytime i will see her the love that i feel for her is coming back but i want to move on...honestly....but she's keep on texting and calling me everytime she wants to. The problem is that she has a new boyfriend right now. What will I do?
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@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
20 Mar 07
I think you guys can't have it both ways. I mean, it's good that you were able to part amicably and there is no resentment between you two. But at the same time, you can't possibly have a clean break if she's constantly contacting you. If you want to move on, honestly, then you need to tell her that you need a little space for a while. You still want to be her friend, but until you can sort out whatever feelings still remain, she needs to keep her distance. I think it would be kind of cruel to break up with someone and be messaging them about the current boyfriend. I hope, for your sake, she hasn't been doing that.
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• Philippines
20 Mar 07
thank you.
@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
20 Mar 07
You're welcome. I hope my advice helps you.
@kendough (20)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
ross, i understand what you're going thru. i had similar experience and it is hard to move on when your ex is constantly popping up in your life. for your to move on you need space to sort things out for yourself and not have any distractions generated by your ex. i think she needs to see that agreeing to be freinds even after the break up doesnt necessarily mean it you can talk and see each other as regularly/frequently as before. it can never be the same as it was when you guys were together. best thing to do is talk to her and explain how you feel and hope that she can understand and respect your choice and honors that by giving you time and space for yourself.