Under what circumstances would you get a divorce?

My whole life has been surrounded by people divorcing as well but you should try and turn this in to a positive thing for yourself. At least you know for sure what kind of marriage you don't want to have. I think i am like you and will put alot of thought into it before marrying someone but I think I would probably getting married for life, the person I was marrying would have to be my best friend and I wouldn't want to have one of those fiesty relationships cos they just aren't good for the kids. I would love to say that I would never file for divorce but I do not think I would keep myself in an unhappy marriage due to it. I don't think youc an really form a true opinion til you are in a marriage yourself.

One is cheating. I cant really forgive my husband to cheat on me and once is enough, I wont tolerate him. Thats the one of the circumstances i will ge a divorce. And also physical and mental and emotional abuse.

I personally would not stay in an unhappy marrage for any reason, people say they stay for the kids, but it only hurts them more in the long run. I am willing to work to make my marrage work, but there are 2 things there is no recovering from in my book: cheating and Abuse.