nature VS nurture

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this is an argument about where we got out personality.. how we handle things, and how we communicate to other people.. what is really the more essential part of one's life to one's development? is it the traits that we have since we were born? or how we were brought up by our parents? well for me, i think it is nurture that plays a big role in one's physical, emotional, spiritual, and sociological development of a person.. because for me, you may have the talent, or you may have the characteristics, but if you don't know how to use it properly, you will not be successful.. example is my singing abilities, since i was a little girl, my dad always taught me how to sing.. the right breathing, sustaining notes, and many other points to remember in singing.. along the way, i have met some people who have very great voice quality.. but they don't know how to use it.. so it ended up that i am a better singer than they are.. how about you? what do you think?