love

People can only do what you allow them to do. if someone says something to you you don't like then let them know. if you see that this is going to happen often then move on. being mistreated is not love. being comfortable with someone is not love. love is saying i want the best for you rather we are together or not.

i can tell u that b'coz the response which u expect from them may be against you tat's why it hurts us too much