Bitter Partners but Better Friends, is it POSSIBLE?
@successonline4all (80)
Philippines
4 responses
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
21 Mar 07
Well I had a very good friend I am female he is was male and we got along like two peas in a pod, until one day we got the idea to get married, oh my was that ever the biggest mistake that we could ever make, needless to say 6 months later we divorced and have not spoken since, he became so controling I about went nuts. so yes it does happen..sad to say
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@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
In my opinion, I don't think they can be better friends too if they have become bitter partner. There is still bitterness and this can't hide the truth they failed as partner and then act as better friends? What transpired between them will get back and the chance for them to be good friends again is when they don't feel the love in their hearts anymore.
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
i think it can happen. bitterness heals with time. and as long as they can trust each other, theres no reason for them not to be good friends. c",)
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
21 Mar 07
Yes, When thoughts and ideas doesn't match when two people of different wave length get married they think opposite on each and every topic but when they are together for outing and all they enjoy because they share same hobbies or interests. It's possible .
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
well.. my ex and i broke up in 1998. we were graduating in high school then. she said she wanted some space.
we lost communication for a few years. good thing my next girlfriend was also her friend. they accidentally bumped onto each other in 2000 and exchanged numbers. girl #2 gives me girl #1's number for some reason.
i tried to call girl #1 just for the heck of it. her mom answers the phone, and surprisingly, her mom knows my voice and recognizes me immediately and asked me to drop by their house.
when girl #2 and i broke up (because she was cheating on me), girl #1 and i have already established good communication. nothing too special, we just wanted our lines open. since then, we kept going out, dating.
funny thing is, it went on until now, still, nothing too special happens. now, i'm with a new girl, had a baby with her, and planning to marry soon. but still, girl #1 and i keep seeing each other, although much lesser now.
i'm not cheating on my new girl. its just that girl #1 have become real good friends. in fact, my fiance knows girl #1 (just to let her know nothing comes in between).
how's that? c",)