Cheaters?
By clifwilson
@clifwilson (31)
United States
March 20, 2007 10:26pm CST
How do you tell if your girlfriend is cheating or not? Asking just does not work, and could actually cause a bigger problem than what was happening in the first place. From my experience, asking only made for a partner thinking that you may be cheating yourself. Which in turn causes them to spend even less time with you. How do you go about fixing situations like this?
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@desimanero (419)
• United States
21 Mar 07
in my experience ive learned that if they are constantly insecure about you being arounf guys or if theyre constantly accusing you of doing it then thats means theyre cheating.But also in my case the truth came out and slapped me in the face by the person he was cheating with.How would i deal with it?Well i would say NOW....it would be a done deal.I would have to say goodbye even by gut instincts.I cant deal with a cheater.If my stomach is telling me hes untrue then thats what my mind will follow.
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
21 Mar 07
First off I think you should trust her, if you have a reason to suspect her of cheating my thing I would do is try to catch her at it...accussing you are right she will just begin to think that you are quilty and are cheating on her..at least that is what I would think...Those that accuse are more quilty than not, so I would just trust her and watch for the sure signs and try to catch her at it or him for that matter whatever the case may be but I would never accuse or assume without proof..and other people saying it just doesn't cut it...
@jakeman0074 (33)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I honestly dont know the only reason i posted here is so thatwhen you figure it out you can let me know, I have been trying to figure that out for years myself!
