Relationships are hard work.....especially when you are living with someone.

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I just moved in with this guy about a couple weeks ago. We fight a lot though already. We BOTH do it. But my anger with him is towards the way he acts around other woman. When his friends bring their girlfriends over he starts to ignore me, he says I ignore him and I do do it only because he does things that proves he isnt paying attention to the fact that I am in the same room. Like once we were sitting in the apartment and his buddies gf was over (stripper mind you) and he gave her a ciggarette and smoked one himself and then he gave me his but, I was on the computer but still, that proves that he'll forget I am in the room ya know. Its really aggrivating for someone to humiliate you like that in front of all of your friends. But ofcourse he will sit there and act like a punk when everyones gone and im trying to tell him how I feel. He just sighs, It's tough though because I have 6 cats and ive been out of a job for a couple weeks (just started again last week). And like tonight when his friends girlfriend came over (different couple he was acting really shady with me, it made me mad cuz he kept looking over at her so me and the girl started messing with him by laughing and stuff. And I told him "I am going to karate shop you" and you know what he said to me "if you get up"I am sitting in the computer room with the door shut and I already told him to leave me alone. At first it was "i was just stating if you got up"and then he just came back in and said "im sorry i thought i was just joking with you"so which one is it? what story ya know? Im stuck, all this was written at a time of an anger adrenalene rush right after we were fighting so I pretty much just typed and already knew what to say. Anyone interested and care to comment? I don't know if I am doubting myself or what.