Staying out of things that doesnt concern you

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I have a friend who I had a pretty heated discussion with over her recent behavior and I got a call from her boyfriend's uncle demanding to know about rumors I was so called spreading about my friend and his nephew when my friend was in fact lying because who was I going to spread rumors when it started when she had a court hearing and I told her before I came to her house that I had stop to make before going home and she proceeded to stop at her mother's job lollygagging with her mom and her mom's co workers and I had to call her on my cell to tell her I had to go home and then we left and then she's turning into the parking lot of the staffing office she and I applied for jobs and then was up in there for 30 mins and again I had to call her and tell her I had to go home. It was after that I didnt talk to her and the other day I got a call from her boyfriend's uncle demanding to know why I was angry with her and I told the uncle to stay out of this because it does not concern him. I think my friend was being very immature to resort to junior high school behavior of involving other people in her disputes and issues and she's 23 for god's sake. How many of you believe she needs to grow up and accept responsibility for what she created and that I was right to tell her boyfriend's uncle to stay out of things between me and this person because it's not his place to sort through and referee a grown adult's dispute with her friends. What made me angrier was when she gave her boyfriend's uncle my cell number to call me when I didnt give her permission to have some stranger call my phone. I would like to hear what you would do if this happened to you or if it did how did you handle things.