Do you hate to be alone or you enjoy it
By palpalsky
@palpalsky (899)
United States
17 responses
@thrwbckjay67 (2870)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I guess it depends on how I am feeling. There are times when I do really just want to be by myself and have some time to myself, which is fun. I can relax and think, sit down adn use the computer and write, or turn the music up full blast and just rock out.
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@daycarepal (1998)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I actually enjoy being alone. I always have. I am kind of a loner type person. I know it's not something that alot of other people would enjoy, but it's never really bothered me.
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
22 Mar 07
That's a difficult question.
When I am alone I am usually so busy thinking about business issues and other goals, that I don't have time to feel lonely. When my husband is here we are so comfortable together that there isn't a need to stop what I am doing. He joins in, discusses things with me, we have lots of laughs and hugs.
It really makes no difference I guess. I usually feel lonely if he has to leave town for a conference, but that passes quickly as I get back to work when that feeling comes over me.
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@amitksing (1323)
• India
21 Mar 07
It actually depends on the mood. I am a social animal and Most of the times, I like to be in company of people. I love being with my friends, spending time, enjoying together.
But there are times when I like to be all alone. Its like when I want to study, when I use my Cell phone to talk to my Girlfriend, when something bad happens (and if I dont want to share that with others) and many such instances!
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@gianena (256)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
I enjoy both - being alone and being with people. I enjoy being alone cause I get to contemplate about my life then I get to do what I really like and I get to go anywhere my heart desires. ;) I also enjoy being with people cause my life would be boring if I don't mingle with others, right?!?!?!? ;) Meeting people can also make my life exciting as well as surprising. ;)
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@sumofalltears (3988)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I like my alone time since it gives me a chance to do what I like to do such as reading or doing a puzzle or wandering around in mylot...:}
@ILANEDRI (1921)
• Israel
21 Mar 07
I always handle alone, because I have always someone that I can get, and to be with, so relationships are not on my mind right now. I do want a girlfriend, but I always find somd minuses in girls. I think I should go with any girl, and that's it!
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@honeyangel (1991)
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21 Mar 07
i do like the time on my own it gives me time to do what i want,time to get my head back together before the kids get home for school
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@babymichellez (312)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
Before I'm used of being alone. Now, I got a kid of my own. I can afford not to be with her. :D
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
21 Mar 07
It depends, sometimes i want to ne alone but sometiems i do not. But at the moment I want to be alone, i can really enjoy it, I can do whatever I can without anymore disturbing me, I have 100% freedom and i really enjoy the silience when I am alone.
@ram_cv (16513)
• India
21 Mar 07
I for one enjoy soltitude as much as I love company. Everyday I like to take at least 1 hour each day out for myself where I can sit and assess my thoughts and spend time on my hobbies. If this requires me to stay up late on some nights I really don't mind doing it.
I have found that it helps both in destressing myself as well as refocus myself in my personal and professional life.
Cheers!
Ram
@shisid (104)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I love to be alone since am used to being alone most of the times and I enjoy my own company.I spend this solitary time either pondering over where my life has taken me so far.Or sometimes just take some book to read or watch T.V.Otherwise the internet is always there to keep me company.
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@simplysue (631)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I really love to be alone...probly because it doesn't happen very often and when it does happen it isn't for more than a couple of hours. Sometimes I wish I had more alone time. Then I tell myself not to wish for it because when our lil one starts school it will come. Then I will be missing my lil one LOL Sometimes I'll stay up very late at night to have some time for myself of get up very early in the morning.What do I do with my alone time? Usually just sit and enjoy the calm quiet while working on a craft or whatever. It helps me to be centered when I can squeeze that calm, quiet time in.
@David_B (89)
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21 Mar 07
In general I prefer to be with people and try to stay away from situations where I'm going to be alone for a longer time. Sometimes you need a little bit of time on your own though.
I think if we go to extremes in anyway, only being with people all the time ore never meet anyone, then we're going to get problems in some way. We need people around us but we also need some space for our selfs.