Do you feel more closer to your girlfriend or your boyfriend

i used to think that there is nothing permanent in this world except change...well it still is, but when i met this guy who happens to be my boyfriend now, i felt so strongly about him like no other guys made me feel...and as time and obstacles passed, we are drew more closer to one another...he lives in a different country now, but i am confident that we are meant for each other, and he feels the same way.. we can tell each other anything, even if it hurt really bad...there was this time that he admitted to me that he loved someone else when we broke off...of course it hurt really bad and came at one point to think that i could never trust him again...but eventually i did...and he told me that it was his biggest mistake and would not want anything else but just be with me... he also thought we were a team, my strength and my kindred spirit... and up to now we share anything and everything as often as before :)

I feel we can be more open ..to the opposite gender.. I know girls initially can be close and we can be best friends...which u can with boys too.. But on time passes ...there is always some wher a jealousy ...or comparison between girls..which happens most of the times.. But this never happens between boys or between a girl and a boy.. i feel this on personnal experience... What do u think..guys...??/