Can you be friend of your ex?

@meguchan (181)
Spain
March 21, 2007 2:37pm CST
Are you friend of your ex? Or you think that is impossible? In my opinion, is normal to be friend of your ex, but the relationship with he/she is more than a simple friendship. I think the feelings of the past can't be erased easily, so... things can happen again! Don't you think?
6 responses
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
In some cases its hard to be friends to your ex especially if your realationship ended so badly... but yes i always wanted to be friends with my x...
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
23 Mar 07
All of my ex's are my friends:). I believe that even though the relationship as bf-gf has to end, we still have the friendship cause after all we've all went through things in our lives together once and we knew each other in some way different..They'll always be part of our lives...Though if my current bf has to be an ex one day (which i never really like to happen..) i'll think twice hehe...cause i've love him so much that i don't want to be hmm..how do i say this...in computer terms,,i dont want to be downgraded haha...
@Newbie11 (197)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I also think friendship with ex is possible.My friend got divorced two years ago.Actually they were having adjustment problem.After divorce both are happy now.They have not broke down the relationship completely.They are now friends.They keep contacts with each other in telephone.
@laarni080 (127)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Of course yes, but also it depends on the situation if youre break up is ok and its fine the two of you can still be friends, because maybe someday in the right time the two of you are really meant for each other
@lbbaby (489)
• China
22 Mar 07
I don't think so . After break up, I think I will destroy all the things belong him and if I think he's worth remembering, I will leave him a place in my heart.
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Well being a friend of your ex is quite possible because that's also where you started but it would depend on the persons involve as well as the situation. But as time goes by, I think it will be ok.. Feelings of the past? It would depend if you've already get over the person or not, it may not be done easily but time will mend the pain. Things "might" happen again if both of you still share the same feelings..