what do you do with a nagging wife?
@bicolanoman888 (3)
Philippines
4 responses
@mouse27 (1155)
• Canada
22 Mar 07
well i'm female so heres the female perspective on things. if your wife is nagging at you about something just nod smile say yes dear and then ask her if there is anything she needs help with. if she is nagging at you about picking up after yourself. tell her that you will start picking up after herself and agree with her that it isn't fair to her to have to pick up after a grown man and kids (if you got them) woman nag for good reason you just have to listen to it and find out whats behind the nagging. if you are unclear ask her. i nag my spouse to get up in the morning if i didn't he would sleep until 3 in the afternoon
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@rosaflorence (1924)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I would try to talk to her. Do not mention that you notice it around her period, this will only make it worse. Tell her that you love her and do not understand why she is always mad at you. Tell her that you don't want to fight and argue and that you wish that she would tell you what is on her mind. If she loves you then she will try to put a holt on all of the nagging. I use to be this way until my hubby sat me down and we had a little chat about it. I now stay out of his way when he is upset and he stays out of mine until we are both cooled down enough to talk to one another.
@sarahcaitlin (132)
• Canada
22 Mar 07
Staring at her will get you no where. Give her chocolate when she has PMS. What does she nag you about? Taking out the garbage, helping around the house...etc? How about trying to do some stuff before she asks.
If none of that works, sit down and talk to her about it. I know guys tend not to talk about things but if yo uare both on the same page then things might get easier for both of you. Good Luck.
@cyclonewriter (2168)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I guess I might fall under the nagging wife category. I am not sure staring at her will help. LOL....Maybe she needs a little kind gesture or maybe she needs her space during this time. Sometime when she is in a good mood, ask her what you should do when she gets like that. It may be all you need to do....:)