Bachelor party

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I was wondering how both mean and women on here feel about bachelor/bachelorette parties. I've been having this discussion with my fiance and some of my female friends. My fiance does not want me to have a bachelor party because she doesn't trust the strippers, but she says bachelorette parties are not as bad because male exotic dancers do no not go as far as females. I totally disagree with that and think that male exotic are 10 times worse than female exotic dancers. Some of my female cousins have agreed with me. Do you think that having a bachelor/bachelorette party is unneccessary? and if not which do you think is worse?