D A D or M O M -whom u the L O V E the most.....W H Y??????????????
By florasaran
@florasaran (126)
India
March 22, 2007 1:38am CST
We have come down to this earth because of our parents...They shower their love upon us.For some,Dad might be very strict,for some mom may be very strict..Some our love towards mom and dad is not same.....Atleast by 0.01% our love differs towards our mom and dad....So lets discuss whom u love the most-ur DAD or MOM...whats the reason for that????
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19 responses
@GurLee (70)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
Mom or Dad..? My answer will be both.. :)
At first, i think i love my mom better then my dad.. Then i think the other way around.. Fuh.. tough choice.. When i think deeply..i couldn't pick just one.. i pick BOTH... I LOVE MY MOM AND DAD...!!
Hehe actually there are things we love about them and there are things we don't.. When parents dissapoint us, make us angry or feel bad, maybe that's the reason why sometimes we feel like we love the other one better then the other.
But, i'm sure for myself that i wouldn't survive this far if it wasn't for my parents.. They are my role model and i love them so much. And thank you God for blessing me with a wonderfull parents.
So... I LOVE BOTH.. and need both.. How about you then..?
@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
Yes u r correct..I too both of them...One eye is my mom and other eys is my dad...i love both of them..as u daid daily i sed to thank my God for giving me such a lovable affectionate parents...
But its not the same for all...some parents might be working..i mean both dad and mom may be working...so child will feel lonely....longs for love....or some of dad might be drunkard,so they might not like their dad...
So we will see how many of them love their dad or mom,......
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@GurLee (70)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
Yeah..i agree with you that not everybody got good parents..But as a child we can work something out to help our family to be a better one..right..?
Well, i guess different people got they own life stories..let's just see what others might say.. :)
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@nel7575 (11)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
Of course I love them both the same! Without them, I won't be here in this world...
I think it's wrong to favour one from the other. Eventhough some parents did bad and unforgiving things, we should love our parents the same. Resentment towards badly-behaved parents are normal but the love for them should never die.....
Therefore, always pray to God that your parents will always be protected from committing sin and evil doings.
@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
GOod....what u say is 100% correct....we should keep loving them
@aarkhay (73)
• India
22 Mar 07
Dad or Mom whoever it is both are lovely. Each one is affectionate towards us in their own way. Though Dad's are tough it is for our well being. At the same time mother's affection cannot be taken lightly. She is also equally tough if the child has to behave. I love both my mom and dad who are always friendly but with my dad I can open my heart which I cannot with my mom because she is more possessive.
@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
Good...I think u r matured enough...
U can feel the difference between the love of mom and dad..
Good..keep loving them in your own way.....Good...
As u said Dad is tough sometime..but its for our own good...
well said aarkhay........
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@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
What u like the most from ur dad and mom?
what u dont like from them??
God has blessed you with good parents.,..
convey ur thanks in the prayers to god.........
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@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
No i love them both!
I am very close with them both!
50 for my dad and 50 for my mom!
I love them all so much!
and i am very proud of them both!
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@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
Good.....u r lucky to be blessed with good parents...
So we need to be a good son and we need to make them proud for having such a son...
We need to that my friend....
Parents are living god.....
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
I love both of them. I can't find any rational and logical reason for me to have a different perspective of how I truly love my parents. I respect them as they are. I have seen all their efforts in sending me to a nice school, giving my needs and providing all my other wants as their child. I couldn't ask for more. I have seen them sacrificed a lot just for me to live life easily and comfortably. I have known all their sufferings just for me to eat the the food that I want and for me to have a bright future. Their proper unbringing to me as a child really means a lot.
@florasaran (126)
• India
22 Mar 07
Good...u r blessed with good parents..what u like the most froim ur dad and mom?
R u the only one child to ur parents..r do u have brothers or sisters...
How do they feel?
If u have them,have u ever felt that they love more than you
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@rajnira060680 (315)
• India
22 Mar 07
I love my mom and dad both... They r everything for me. I cant live without them....
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@angelco (345)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
well the first person that comes in my mind who i loved the most i think my mom because she's just like a friend wherein she's consultant and my mentor whenever i have my problems and since its a girl matter she's the only one that i can go with however for some reasons i love both of them because they are the reasons why i'm living here :)
@florasaran (126)
• India
23 Mar 07
So from ur discussion i can see u love ur mom the most..She is ur friend..so u share all your problems or anything to her..U have said both of them...but i think u love ur mom the best..how about ur father?is he not friendlt to u?
U r close to ur mom..so treat ur dad in the same way....so that ur dad also becomes ur friend..Ok
Keep loving parents....
@subathra (3519)
• India
22 Mar 07
I love both of them.I agree that they are strict sometimes but their love towards us can never decrease atleast 0.01%This is my opinion.i too feel that parents should show strictness towards their children when its necessary otherwise it will spoil the childrens future
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I think I love my parents equally. I can't say that I love one over the other. They both have their good and bad traits. However, my mom is more of a presence in my life, I speak to her more often than I do my dad because he works different hours. I really can't say that I love one over the other. I just don't feel that way.
@florasaran (126)
• India
23 Mar 07
i can see u love ur mom the most..since ur dad works in differrent hours u r not able to share ur feelings to ur father...So try to spend weekends most of them time with ur dad...Ok.that way u can compensate ur dad...Ok..Anyway ur love doesnt differs to ur DAD AND MOM,,,,
KEEP LOVING MY FRIEND
@Princeyuva (28)
• India
22 Mar 07
Saran! I love both. I share everything with both. My dad never forces or restrains me from doing things. He just gives me his ideas on what he feels abt it. Mom on the other will object if she thinks I shouldn't do it. To conclude i love them both equally. I cant deceide which eye is better my left or right? The same applies to my dad & mom.
@florasaran (126)
• India
23 Mar 07
So ur dad is like a friend....who shares ideas of his feel..decission is in ur hands,right..Usually in most of the family dad used to be strict,or objects things..Its different for u..ur mom objects here..Anyway u said they are ur both eyes...so ur affection towards them is endless.....
Keep loving.......
@florasaran (126)
• India
23 Mar 07
I agree.....with u....they are strict because of our life should be better in future....
As u said we should always them....never isolate them...
Keep Loving
@manasisohani (2)
• India
22 Mar 07
"mom"--shes always thr 4 me whnever i look back...simple reason dads nt always available...
@florasaran (126)
• India
23 Mar 07
Different answer from u.......So ur distance with ur father made u to love ur mom very much....Do ur father love ur very much?
Keep loving them my friend....
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
22 Mar 07
id have to say both, because i love them both so much and i dont think i love either one more than the other.
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
22 Mar 07
I used to think I preferred my mother (i always loved them both equally though) but the other day my dad told me he loved me and got quite emotional about it. He said he felt guilty because he hasn't told me since I was little. I told him I always knew he loved me, he just isn't the type to show his emotions. It was probably the most emotional day of my life so far, but now I realise that your parents love you so much, even if they don't always express it and I now have so much respect and love for my father.
@srinivas_sri7 (94)
• India
22 Mar 07
yes you are correct we show little difference,this is due to affection we are having,I LOVE MY MOM VERY MUCH because she helps in everything and also very good
@bhu_bhuvaneshwari (164)
• India
22 Mar 07
i love both my dad and my mom but i think as you grow up you would get attached any one of them like most girls get attached to their moms and guys get attached to their dad. Its just about with whom you are more comfortable with.