do we love only to get hurt?

i think we love to make a meaning out of our lives...life would be so dull if we don't love but i think we need to take risk of getting hurt. After all, most of the events that is best in our lives are those we worked hard for, we surpassed..like problems. Me? I'm guilty of the fact that when I go down I don't have interest to rise up again..but certain inspirations could be a good remedy ^_^

yes we love to get hurt... when u love then u get hurt it means that u have loved. it doesnt mean just because u love u wont get hurt because it is on hurting u will know and learn what real love is and why u love on the first place. dont get upset if u get hurt when love be happy because u have learned that u have loved then....

Girl, that's one risk that we should all know before getting into a relationship.. Expect that when you are in one you would get hurt no matter how much you love each other, there will always be bad times. Sad to say that things will not always go our way, and I know it's hard coz I'm also a girl.. We are much more emotional compared to guys plus we are weak that's why there are some guys who took advantage of it and use it to let us run after them even if they're the one who's at fault. My boyfriend really explained that to me.. Since you're the one who decided to let go then if you feel like that's the right thing to do then go for it, I won't be telling you what to do but it really hurts when you broke up with someone you still have feelings for.. If you want to talk to him then go ahead explain your side but try to think things over before you decide on what you'll be doing.. You can't think well if you're not calm.. I do hope you'll feel much better, sorry for a long response but I think there are just things I need to tell you to let you understand how it feels..:)

Hey cheer up..there is just new use crying over someone who does not value you.He just not deserve someone who cares and loves him so much.Just let him go..someone much better will enter your life soon..who will know your worth and love you for what you are.so cheer up girl..life is still beautiful..live it to the fullest!

we love not to get hurt..who's the stupid people who wants to get hurt with the one they love? we love because we want to be loved in return.we love because we want to be happy..we want to get inspired and we want someone who'll always be there for us in times of trouble and on our down moments.pain and hurt is part of it..we'll never know that we love that person until we get hurt..i know that its hard to move on..but time will come,that you'll overcome that pain..and remember.."THE BEST REMEDY OF PAIN IN LOVE IS TO GET IN LOVE AGAIN... one more thing..please listen to nina's song entitled "SOMEDAY" and regine velasquez's "YOU MADE ME STRONGER"..the song is so beautiful that you'll get stronger everytime you'll hear it.. GO GIRL!

those are sweet memories with sweet pains

I guess everyone gets hurt along the way, and it is like hell at the time but whenever I have been hurt I try and think that at least I have had love and I have loved some people never get the chance.

When you're young you tend to believe that love is this beautiful, pure thing that only good can come out of. I think naive romance is cute, but I think the most romantic notion is knowing exactly what you're getting into (the possibility of heartbreak and pain) but still deciding it's worth taking the risk. I believe that every lesson in life is payed at your own expense or at the expense of others. You feel pain or you cause pain and you learn from it. Love, whether or not it lasts, is one of the best teachers.

well... love is a veryyy important thing... and heartbreaks happen with everyone!! u just have to realise that whatever happens is always for a reason... though we may not be able to see the reason and think that our lives are messed up, one day we realise that it was all for the better!! heartbreaks hurt but they do make us stronger!! guys don't always value love as much as they should... just don't let this incident ever stop you from loving someone in the future... you can't stay away from a rose just because it has thorns too... go ahead dear, rejeuvenate yourself and see the beauty in life once more as you bring the faith in your heart again... everyone goes through heartbreaks bt what matters is that you should hold on to the faith and the love in your heart...

Hurt is part of loving and love is part of hurting. anyway, accept it. maybe his not for you. enjoy life girl.... don;t sitck with him./..