Will you ever cheat on your partner???
@bhu_bhuvaneshwari (164)
India
March 22, 2007 4:12am CST
Will you ever cheat on your partner if you are sure that you will not get caught and the opportunity is right in front of you. How would you justify yourself.
12 responses
@advicegirl (95)
• United States
28 Mar 07
If you truly love your partner, you would not resort to cheating. So in all honesty, I don't think I can do that to someone. The amount of hurt and pain that it causes, as well as the disintegration of trust and friendship that took months or even years to build just is not worth it to me. So, I'd rather end the relationship if I no longer wanted to be committed to them, than disrespect what we have created together by cheating.
I don't think there is ever any justification for cheating. Even if I knew I would not get caught, I would always know what I did and my conscience would haunt me, where the experience would not even be enjoyable.
Just my $0.03 on the matter :)
All the best,
Zuri
http://askzuri.blogspot.com
@advicegirl (95)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I also forgot to say that I believe in doing unto others as you would want to be done to you. And, with that philosophy I believe we can create karmic debt by acting in an unkind or negative manner, that is created by cheating on a partner.
Eventually, by betraying the trust and relationship we once coveted, we send out energy to the Universe that comes back to us in a boomerang effect. Basically the belief of what goes around comes around. So, I'm always careful in how I treat others and what I say.
Those who cheat ultimately have to live with the consequences of their actions, and the potential losses of people that are affected by the experience.
- Zuri
http://askzuri.blogspot.com
@vogelvrij (196)
• Netherlands
29 Mar 07
NO, I would never cheat on my partner. I have done that before in another relationship. That relationship was at its end, but thats no excuse. I felt terrible doing it. It made me feel horrible, disgusting of myself. I felt guilty, always afraid it will come out some day or not. Now I am in another relationship. And I dont cheat and I wont cheat. I have been there. Too much worries, pains and feeling guilty. I want to look my partner straight into the eyes and tell him he is the only one!
@dj_faheem (738)
• Pakistan
29 Mar 07
nope i dont like cheating in any field so i not cheat everybody and i not like it
i hate cheating
@kishoreboni (37)
• India
23 Mar 07
no..i love my partner...i dont think that is not correct to hide any matter.i do tell every thing i did...whether it is wrong or right...sothat there will not be any clashes and misunderstanding btwn us...
@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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29 Mar 07
There is no reason or excuse to ever cheat on your partner/spouse. I would never do that. I totally trust my hubby and he knows he can trust me. He is the only man for me so I would never put myself in that situation. If you love someone, you can't cheat on them and still love them. That would betray the trust and love of that very important relationship. I honor my vows and so does he.
@pretty_angel (908)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
I have to admit that iv'e cheated before. My human nature justifies what iv'e done. Im capable of mistakes as everyone is. But doing it many times is not justifiable anymore. If you cheated it means you have your full consent of what you are doing so doing it many times means your doing it on purpose.
@mykykko (424)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
i have some fling relationships before,when hubby was just my boyfriend.but those relationship did not turn into something very special or deeper like ours.i would say cheating is not that hard to do it's just a matter of choice or option.and i opt to still have my boyfriend.i will never cheat on him because i hate the feeling of being cheated.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
22 Mar 07
I completley agree that I cheated , I seriously hope it has'nt happened to you... When I was younger I cheated on two partners, now i'm older there is nothing I could appreciate as being more hurtful that someone giving all their love, time, money in some circumstances, given up friends etc and putting 100% of their feelings and trust in someone's hands for them to not see how important that is. Why people can't be honest is beyond me... however, when I cheated I was worried about breaking up with my ex because of hurting her feelings... a contradiction I know, but if we were honest in the beginning that if we were not happy, no matter how happy the partner was we would end before we did ANYTHING like cheating. Is that ok? I've tried to show both perspectives there
@someincome (785)
• India
22 Mar 07
I would like to think that I would play around when I'm given the assurance that I wouldn't get caught. It sounds tempting for a moment. BUT, when I think about it as to why I feel uncomfortable with the thought of cheating on my partner, I realize, that its never really about getting caught or not. Its about inner self. I'll always know that I have cheated on my partner and thus lessened my own value. I will never cheat on my partner.
@10astron (53)
• India
22 Mar 07
Am single .... never really got a chance to cheat :)...hmmm given the above condition i still won't cheat ....because am really bad at it..used to get caught at school several times and don't think i've improved much....so ...won't take any risk on my relationship!
cheers!
@jack914 (66)
• China
22 Mar 07
well,sometimes wo did it .I don't think cheating is bad,because you will find cheating without malicious is a good way to improve yours love.that's my opinion.
at last ,i am very happy to introduce myself to you ,hello ,i am a chinese boy .i am glad to see you .I want to be your feiend .
