Virginity is a big issue over a Small Tissue

everyone has their own reasons and respecting that is important. majority of reasons are they reserve themselves for marriage. and that people are AMAZING people. i am not a virgin right now and i am 17 years of age. i wasn't able to hold it for long cause i really love my bf and i wanted it to give it to him. my reason of giving it to him is that AT LEAST i was able to give it to the man i really love and love me... cause rape CRIMES are specially on internet are increasing and i dont want my virginity to lose to such crime. i know it's weird and funny to think of that but that's the strongest point i'm getting my guts to have no regrets upon losing it.

it is the matter of culture where we are. For most asian people, virginity symbolizes something very honourable of a girl. Long long time ago there were even some honour from the palace for those widow who stay widow, funny isn't it. I pesonally think that virginity also quite important, especially for young girls. However, if we somehow married to a widow or whosoever who is not young anymore, do not expect something so naive. You are right, it is a matter of small tissue, some surgery can repair it. The more important thing is you love her with your whole heart.

I need to think 10 times before i give my decision :D But i like the way you put up the story here. Lets face it though. Wait for my response... u will like it. Cheers

I'm not sure what the virgin fuss is all about, myself. Let me say, I'd rather have an experienced partner as opposed to someone who doesn't know what they are doing and may be afraid. I wouldn't want someone who's had 1000 partners or anything, but experience is a plus. People who aren't virgins are more open to suggestion and experimentation, you could have more fun with a non virgin than with a virgin. Unless you're perv that gets off on deflowering young girls. lol. I don't see what the big deal is either.