will you prefer get ting "married" or remaining as a "bachelor"

O Friend! I am married having a son. I got married almost couple of years back. See, I think it's better to get married in order to feel your responsibilities and enjoy the life with lot of load. That's the true life. If you feel the marriage a burden then you are right. This is the burden you have to carry on. Life is neither good nor so bad, we are the people who make the life good or bad by ignoring the social obligations and keeping the eys closed for nothing. If you feel happy alone then its upto you but one day you will have to fasten the chain.. ;)

i want to be married!!! whatever hazarads happen,itz always nice to be loved and to love!

For me I love being married. But I guess everybody is entitled to their choice of status. If a person truly don't feel like being tied down or would suffer if their freedom diminishes then maybe the single life is for them. If they couldn't bare the responsibility of having to look after someone or a whole family, maybe it is better if they don't or else they might end up being irresponsible spouse or parent.

the given problem is a cat on the wall situation...some say that one who says he will stay bachelor ,will be the first to marry..

hmm.. i guess i'd rather say that being single and having tied down to commitment are two diferrent entities. each had its pros and cons... i mean, we can name a lot of those if we want to. like remaining a bachelor could give us the freedom to enjoy the single life, have fun and meet a lot of girls. but it's sometimes envying someone going steady with his partner. getting committed may take some responsibility and restrict some freedom. but living a family is another whole story! oh yeah, i'm a bachelor... too young to be married (coz i'm still studying) (n_n)