Should You Ever Change for a Man?

I think that if the changes bring you closer to who YOU want to be and betters you as a person then there's no harm in changing. But to change for someone else just because they want you to? If you have a bad temper and they ask you to take some anger management classes, I can see how that would be positive. A guy who asks you to loose weight? Unless you're obese it's because he's worried about health issues, that seems a little strange. I guess it comes down to what the situation is and what you can/can't live with. You really have to be careful about 2 things: Is the change going to be negative? And if you do decide to change, are you going to resent him later? For example: If you quit a job you really love, are you going to hate him for it later?

i dont mind changing for him..if i see our relationship is going sour then i'll definately change for him(only at vast situations)....but somewhere i also believe if he loves me he has to except me the way i am

Its case to case basis depends on how certain changes would affect your life, if its for good or the other way. But definitely, if he loves you and knows that those changes would make you a better person, you can consider it, still the final decision is yours. No one can force you to change who really you are, it may work for a specific period of time but will not last longer until you do it at your will.

Yes I'm open for changes if it is for my own goodness and for our relationship to last...