I dated them for six months then found out they were a WHAT?????
By lacurandera
@lacurandera (335)
United States
March 22, 2007 3:53pm CST
Say you've been seeing someone for a few months and really begin to like them and the relationship seems to actually be going somewhere. Okay, you haven't slept with them yet but you're thinking about it. Then you go out to dinner one night, go back to his (or her) place and this might be the night. What do you do when the clothes come off and you find out she's a he or he's a she???
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@vogelvrij (196)
• Netherlands
2 Apr 07
That would be something really really bad....I always thought that if a male transfers into a female you can recognize them a little bit by the fact that that girl must have really really long legs. Thats a sign I guess. And I also thought that if a male transfers into a female there the adamsapple in the neck is still there. I dont know if thats operatable and taken away also. But I surely would be terribly shocked when I found out the girl/boy wasnt the person he or she I thought he or she was to be. Maybe the person should be upfront with you right away about the situation, or, at least, give some clearance to you BEFORE you started to makin'love and get the clothes off. Did this happened to you?
@lacurandera (335)
• United States
2 Apr 07
lol. No, this didn't happen to me. Thank goodness! I just wondered how other people would handle the situation if they were put in it.
@lacurandera (335)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I think maybe in some situations like this, the person hiding their gender isn't really trying to "play with someone's feelings" but perhaps is too afraid to come out and admit their sexuality, so they hope someday they'll find someone who will appreciate them for the person they are inside and overlook the gender/sexuality thing. That's pure speculation, but I don't think someone would do it to hurt another person, necessarily.
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@ericjohn19 (109)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Ha ha This is very funny. I like this discussion. Though I've never experience I hope I will never experience such. If ever this would happen to me I don't know what will happen next maybe I'll walk out or maybe the opposite way. lol
@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
I dont know.. I haven't encountered any instances like that so far of my life! LOL
Well, ifever it will happen on me..
I think ill get shock ofcourse, then pause for awhile,
Ask him/her what the he** is that?? hehe
Then get out!
I dont wanna waste my time playing with those kinds of people sorry!
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
23 Mar 07
It would have to be a dark drunken stupor at 3 o'clock in the morning for me to take home a tranny. Sorry it isn't going to happen to me.
I feel sorry for anyone who has experienced this form of deceit.
