Have you ever been WebStalked??

I just ignore them online and they will stop bothering you.

well no but I did meet a guy online before. He was from my area and we were the same age. Well he was a little older. We knew a lot of the same people so I agreed to meet him. What a mistake that was. I mean I was only like 16-17 at the time. I took like 14 mini thins before I left and he came to pick me up. He wasnt that bad looking but not really my type. We went back to his trailer which was foul and smoked this dirt a$$ weed. I drank a bottle of champagne to myself. We never spoke again but he was such a dirtball.

I'm back!!!! Boo hoo it's not me really is it!!

Fortunately nothing like that has happened to me. I think if it did I would first tell them to go away and leave me alone. If that didn't work, I'd probably look at changing my email, etc. I don't think getting verbally abusive is the answer. I think that could esculate things into something worse. I sure hope you're not having that problem!!

Actually yes I have - though not on MyLot. I am a member of quite a few tennis forums, as tennis is my biggest passion in life, - and through one of those, I met this young lad who wanted to chat about tennis with me. Trouble was - I soo fund out he had developed a "crush" on me, and when I tld him I was far too old for him, and in a relationship anyway, he turned really nasty. He stalked me for about 18 months, following me around these Forums, sending me abusive, and sexist PMs, and also spreading rumours about my private life. He was banned from all the boards, but he managed to get hold of my private email address, and hassled me though that too, and also some of my friends who stood up for me. I had to change my email, and my home phone number just in case. It was quite scary because he is also from the UK (living not so far from me - just a couple of hours drive) - and I was very worried for a while. Anyway - eventually it all quietened down - haven't heard of him for about 6 months now. I like to think it is all over. I wish your friend luck with her problem.

Heh heh, it's funny you should mention this, I have a feeling I may gave such a problem. Just what I needed!

you two again... haha... i did have.. he's just for friend at first, then later he liked me... later he's obsessed, every post i made in each site i had opinions or discussions, he stalks them and he'll tell me he found out of something and etc.. i was very pissed, because its our private life, we are not that famous that we'll have some paparazzi around checking every bit of our thing we do online.. weww... kinda annoying, but maybe they are just sick or shall i say, obsessed and inlove.. like...^_^ like him.. to you... so take care...both of you.^_^

Well, I refuse to hide under a cyber rock so I throw some of their own medicine at them. Dig up dirt on them, search their email addresses to see where they post, forums they belong to etc. Oh lord I could write a book about places to search for info about people. Being stalked isn't fun. If someone is harassing you to the point that you debate whether to turn the computer on or not, maybe it's time to call in some reinforcements and call the cops.

Ok, you talked me into it, here's your brand new thread :)

I have and I learned a big lesson, don't ever think that they won't make the distance to travel to actually try to get near you because in my case this happened and he actually joined my college where I was at and everything, bumped into me, more than a few times and stole my favourite pink knickers, but since he is my husband now it don't matter...