Letting go of pass love and moving on with new one...
By brentonlee
@brentonlee (127)
Malaysia
March 23, 2007 6:25am CST
How do you let go of your ex and moving on with new love of your life? There are so much memories and experiences that you go thru together, that form the bond of the relationship which makes it so hard for you not to compare with the one that you are with at the moment. Such comparison often come in between of a new relationship.
I was thinking about that when my friend was talking about it the other day and it really makes you wonder can one really move on, start fresh with someone else? What do you think? Anyone has the experience to share?
1 response
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
moving on is the best thing to do. life does really have to go on. but i think it is not fair for a person to jump in another relationship just to forget the past one. if you do that comparison will always be there. start with a fresh one when you think you are emotionally and mentally ready already than jumping on a new relationship.
@brentonlee (127)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 07
That's what I mean. If the relationship is so meaningful and full of great memories, but you know relationship ended and no way to safe it. How to forget about something that means so much...Yes moving on but can anyone with such great pass experience can not to compare or remembering each the new relationship do things that previously has done before?
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
you can forget a pass relationship but that would not take over nights. that will be a slow process. people can be sentimental. if you accept to yourself that love and relationship do sometimes fail then you can now move on. acceptance is the right word to it i think.
