Anyone else think MySpace should be renamed MyPorn?

United States
March 23, 2007 10:34am CST
Raising my hand to vote yes! What is WITH that place?? I am seriously considering deleting my page as I am tired of women and men trying to add me to try and show me their filthy pictures, affiliate ads, or messaging me to say, "hey cutie, want to blah blah, I will be in your area soon" BLECH!! and this from another woman??!! Don't these people realize how pathetic and desperate and insecure they seem? Or how they are setting themselves up to get exactly what they are "asking" for (or WORSE!)?
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25 responses
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I agree myspace is horrible. I had a page, I thought it would be a good way to keep in contact with my family, as they all had one too. But I recently deleted it, because of all the crap going on there. People use it for bad, but then again what do you expect in these days and times. I hated getting that crap, and worse, people get on there and play games, I know of two relationships ruined by myspace.
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• United States
23 Mar 07
That is sad, the relationships ruined and you feeling you needed to delete your page when you only wanted to keep in touch with family. Maybe they will clean it up? Either way, it isn't anything in comparison to MyLot. I really like this site and the people I have met here so far. :)
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@xionous (439)
• Belgium
24 Mar 07
okay i didnt know that since i dont have any profile at myspace. i use hi5 and thats a good site indeed. i i never had any problem there. well may be thats because im not a girl or something but i never try to disturbe anyone.
• United States
23 Mar 07
I personally love myspace because you CAN find quality people. If you don't want so much activity, set your page to only friends. You won't get so much of that. I get my share of crappy add mes, but I state on my page that if you aren't talking, you are deleted. I have found about 41 great friends that way. Wouldn't trade it for the world! :)
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• United States
23 Mar 07
Thank you for the comment! I'm happy to see some differing perspectives and positive experiences with MySpace. :)
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
24 Mar 07
Isn't it a less for all of us. When people are given the freedom to express who they are and what they are thinking about on the internet, look what comes out. It's not wholesome, it's not beautiful or helpful - it's just plain sinful.
24 Mar 07
My partner still has his page on MySpace as he is a professional musician and he has a lot of contacts through MySpace. He is sick and tired of the amount of garbage he is being sent now, and fed up with the amount of time it takes to delete it all.
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• United States
24 Mar 07
Good points - my son has his MS page mostly because he is a musician also, and likes to keep in touch with high school friends from another town as well. I agree the time and effort it takes to delete things which should not be showing up at all (and are also showing up on the profiles of very young children who SHOULD be supervised by their parents) is annoying.
@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
25 Mar 07
MySpace does seem to suffer from what tends to happen to sites that become the "500lb gorilla" in their categories. Everybody and their cousin wants to get on there to promote, scam, sell, and push people into whatever latest fad they can. I often liken web communities to cities, and their growth as the movement from a "village" to a "big city." Many moons ago, I used AOL as my Internet service provider, and it was this cool little "community" which wasn't any larger than you peridically would run into the same group of people in chat, or on different message boards. Then it became 20+ million people... and everything became assorted scams, spam email, password frauds, and goddness knows what else. Same with eBay-- used to be a cool site for collectors, and many buyers and sellers "knew" each other, in that "online way" we can. Same thing with MySpace... once a cool social network, now a "big city" with all the attendant "big city crime." I do have a MySpace profile-- originally started at the encouragement of friends, and to keep up with some "non-mainstream" bands I like. In fact, I just logged in this morning... and found no less than 10 friend requests (since last weekend) NINE of which had been cancelled due to "account closed." And frankly, I don't CARE about some college co-ed's web cam. I'm not quite ready to close my own account yet, but I can't say that I feel encouraged to "hang out" there. Should we call it MyPorn? Maybe that's a bit TOO far... but MySleaze might be appropriate... :-D
• United States
25 Mar 07
Thank you for your response. I really enjoy your analogy about "big city crime". ;)
• United States
23 Mar 07
Well I don't really care for MySpace either anymore. I remember when it wasn't a bad thing at all. You could actually mean nice and cool people to chat with. Now it's just nothing but spam or idiots acting desperate and stupid. I just don't get it. Well it's places like MySpace that contribute to people meeting, then either getting raped or killed. It's really just too sad people have to be that way. I hope this place stays a great place for a long while :)
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• United States
23 Mar 07
While I agree with your comment that Myspace makes it easier for people to meet and bad things to happen, I personally think it's unfair to single that out as hte only way for it to happen. I realize that it makes it easier, and I don't disagree with you, but chat rooms in reputable sites like Yahoo do the same thing... we have to take those reports with a grain of salt. It's about nurture in the end. Sites like Myspace have been around forever. I think it's upto us as a community, as members of society, to take care of the children as much as it is closing sites like Myspace. I don't agree with much of the content on Myspace, but I am not going to renounce it either because of such content. I believe that with the right guidance, the right tools, and the right attitudes, people can use sites like this with discretion instead of reckless abandon.
• United States
23 Mar 07
It's nice to see this comment coming from a younger person (I am nearly twice your age). Ah there IS hope for the future of mankind. (wink) I agree...I hope MyLot remains user friendly and realistic. I think it has a good chance - I have yet to see anything "weird" or "disgusting" around here, and with over 80,000 members, I think that's awesome!
@lenywp (1963)
• Australia
24 Mar 07
Yeah that is true. Young children shouldn't even be allowed to create pages and should be closely monitored by parents to prevent them on going on sites like that.
• United States
23 Mar 07
I have to disagree, I really enjoy myspace, I have gotten the chance to reconnect with people from high school and I even reconnect with a friend that had moved away when I was 10 years old!! We had always wanted to reconnect but had no way of doing so, and if it weren't for myspace we maybe never would have. I enjoy being able to talk to people from years ago and see how their lives have changed and see their children. I hope myspace is never taken down. There are ways to not be annoyed by the bad people out there just change your privacy settings. Unforunately in todays society there's going to be bad people everywhere you go.
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• Canada
24 Mar 07
I used to have a MySpace page too, but I deleted it like a month after I started it. I hated that people kept asking me to add them when I had NO clue who they were or where they'd come from. I started one because my friend had one and it was a good way to keep in touch with her - but I ended up regretting it. Now I stick to my personal blog and thats it. I think Myspace has and is going downhill fast, they're being slapped with lawsuits left right and centre, and I don't know if they'll be able to bounce back from it. I honestly think the sooner they close the entire site, the better.
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@MsJessi (423)
• United States
24 Mar 07
Well, just like any other community site, you will have your share of bad seeds. I get those stupid friend requests too, and I just delete them! I like MySpace to keep up with all my old friends and high school friends and I've met a lot of really nice people there... You just gotta take the bad with the good.
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@kring_m (107)
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
OMG! yes, there are total strangers who message me and tells me that he'll visit our country soon and he needs company, and it will be all expense paid. well, i know that Filipinos are well known for our hospitality but there's a limit of being hospitable. I also hate "POSERS". those who use pictures of other users and post it to their page.
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• United States
23 Mar 07
I've had a MySpace profile for a few years now. Sure, I see people posting filthy pics and asking random questions, but I usually ignore them (if they put it in a bulletin). If they personally message me/comment me about it, I just delete that comment, and delete them from my friends list. I never let those things go too deep into my head. I just delete, and move on.
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@PunkyMcPunk (1477)
• Canada
24 Mar 07
I used to have a Myspace, then I deleted it.... Now I have finally gotten one back... I'm not struck on it as I find it to be quite boring. So you put a profile up, throw up a few pics.... fill in a bit of info about yourself... then what? ZZZzzzzzzzz I tried to add my 2 cents to the forums and had a bunch of PUNKS! start insulting my posts. Not really giving any valid points (because I do appreciate criticizm when its valid) but mostly just being stupid and insulting. So I stopped posting in the MySpace. Also, what really bothers me is all of these bands that add you for no apparent reason. If these bands had've looked at my profile they would know that i wasn't at all interested in their type of music so why would I want to be "friends" with them. Or these random people taht add you because they want a higher friend count and not a friend. The only thing that I truly find appalling about MySpace is the "wh*re trains", I mean seriously, what self respecting guy or gal would sign up to tell the world that they were a "wh*re"???
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• United States
24 Mar 07
Honestly, I don't believe so. I can say that I have found several friends through myspace, that I would not have found otherwise. At least there is a filter that allows you to delete these spammers without them posting directly to your page. I feel that myspace has allowed me to communicate with friends and family and is a good resource.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
24 Mar 07
I can understand your annoyance but that doesnot call for such a strong attitude. I get that you are, if not a victim, but had a chronic filthy experience with myspace. I am sorry for that. I have been in myspace for a while now and haven’t had any true bad experience whatsoever. In that way, all places are good or bad in its own right, we have to be wise in dealing with it. I donot know about your profile page, have you had any allures on it or it could be you are too good to resist!! LOL… I can’t comment without having a look at your profile. But, I think we should be more cautious and careful and before actually getting judgemental we should try and rectify ourselves, if atall we need to. (nothing personally meant). And as for these rotten ppl, they are sick and as you have said, insecure and desperate, they need help!! However, having said this, what you have said is correct, but we can ignore them and the irritation is there in every sphere. just wear a smile and think it as “yet another fun’ and trash it right away. Infact, I think that it’s very easy to customize and search and get hold of someone through myspace, if someone has an intention that bad. So, dear let’s be brave and prioritize our values. Thanx for your nice thread.
• United States
24 Mar 07
Thank you for your thoughtful response! My page only has this one pic that is here and is mostly related to my business - my friends are other successful people who earn thousands online like Michel Fortin, Brad Callen, Mark Joyner, Rosalind Gardner, Lynn Terry, plus my son and a couple other friends. Perhaps my question seemed over the top - it is just an observation based on some tiring experiences, etc, and I was curious how others view what is happening over there which seems un-moderated. Trust me, I dont have my hose all in a bunch over something so minor, LOL. Another person suggested they implement a user rating system like here. I think that would be a great idea to help keep it more user friendly.
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
10 Jun 07
Haha the title of your discussion made me laugh. Yeah, I agree though, it is really ridiculous!! I will sometimes go for a really long time without any problems, and then all of a sudden I'll get tons of messages from random women out of nowhere! It's so disgusting and annoying! Sometimes I feel like screaming. :P I have also really seriously considered just closing out my account, but then I always end up keeping it only because my husband has myspace and I sort of like being able to leave him little messages and everything while he's overseas, and I also have some friends from high school on there that I'd hate to lose touch with. It is really tempting though to just get rid of it cause things on there can be really bad sometimes. They need some kind of spam filter or something!
• United States
10 Jun 07
Elisa, I am glad you got a chuckle out of it. That was partially my intent. :) I realize now that many of the "messages" that people get are from "bots", but it does not explain away the filth-ridden graphic conversations people have with very young girls who have portrayed themselves as lonely, ready and willing ho's, or the ridiculous photos posted which may as well be in Penthouse...or maybe that is the goal: to get chosen for publication there, lol. People may (unfortunately) get exactly what they are trolling for (and then some) in reality, and maybe a little too close for comfort.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
16 Feb 08
Some of the stuff I've seen on there makes me agree with you. It is terribly adult oriented and to think there are alot of kids on there. I signed up and had a profile for about 20 minutes and I deleted it. It's just not for me. I'll stick with MyLot and be happy with it. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@teleios (737)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
that's terrible. is that really what's happening to myspace now? i'm glad i dont have an account there, i wont have to delete it :)
@PacShady (32)
• Australia
23 May 07
Actually, I'd more likely call it MyRazor. The place is Emo Central on the web! It's people like them that are reason enough for us to just give the razors away. 'Shady
• United States
9 Jun 07
Myspace should be changed to MyPorn because anyways noone's gonna leave after the name change, everyone in MySpace thinks MySpace is a hook up site, mine i have only used it to chat with my friends specially those who ahev graduated and i don't talk to much.