Newbie's asking for Friendship Request

I don't understand why anyone would reject anyone who asked to be a friend. I have always approved anyone that asked and I don't see how that could do any harm, even if they wrote things in their comments that I didn't agree with. No one else is going to say, "Oh, no, Stringbean has that person for a friend so Stringbean must be a bad person." They would judge me for my own comments. You shouldn't let that one person stop you from asking to be a friend. Even if ten people rejected you, most people would accept so keep on asking.

I always accept anyone who wants to be my friend. We should not judge a person just because he is a newbie. As a matter of fact newbies needs to be accepted by the old members here so that they will be convinced to stay here longer. If they can't make friends here or rejected my other old members there will be no more newbies who will stay active here. I'm also a newbie here coz I just started this month but I'm glad I have met some friends here who are very nice and friendly.

if they havent responded to one of my discussions, nor me to theirs, i just ignore them. I only have people on my list that i have something in common with blessed be

I usually accept anyone who ask me to be their friend. i usually check their profile to see if they have any interesting discussion after i approved their request.

i always look at there profile before approving a freind lol, we all were noobs at one point and i bet the best on mylot wanted friendship with some one better than him/her

I'm still a newbie here and I really value and appreciate when old members accept my invitation. And especially when they like my comment, or even replied to my comment or discussion. It makes me feel accepted and especially their support is great. So I don't reject anyone who invites me, especially newbies like me. Even in real life you don't always agree with your friends. But it doesn't matter as long as they accept you for who you are.

I usually accept them and delete them later if they arent good friends

New Bie, i 1st see his profile and see what he is about here, and mostly i add them as my friend, i like to be a friend here in my lot.

I never reject a friend request, and I think it is not polite to reject others. since they decide to ask for friendship, they must have checked your profie, and would like to make friends with you. so why reject them? Especially for the newbies, they may need some help from us, I would like to help the newbies if they ask some questions. Fortunately, when I was a newbie, I met many warm-hearted old members. they always gave me a hand when I came across some problems. Now I also have a high score, and I will do just the same as my old friends. never think about rejecting the request from newbies .

First of all let me tell you that you were my first friend whom I had requested when i joined mylot and you were really warm you not only agreed to my friend request but also you send me a welcome message, it was really great, I never reject anyone who requests me for friendship, I do check their profiles but I have not rejected anyone till now, when I was new on mylot I was kept pending by some of the members when i requested to them and I only later deleted my request, so I am very concerned of new mylotters if they ask me for a freinds request I never let them down.

With all the users here trying their best to make friends, I try my best and take time in looking at their profiles. I do have the same experience as you did have, but I want to make sure that my friends are 'legit' and that they don't try to use me or abuse me, by sendig me some referrals to other sites to which I know are scams. I prefer to look at their profiles because I want to know if we both have some interest that are in common, because it is an advantage for the both of us as we try to exchange and share our views and opinions at each other..

I approve anything that comes my way. if anything they just gather virtual dust if they are not active.