Husbands

July 13, 2006 8:37am CST
Any one want to tell me why husbands are so moody, why they are so unpredictable and are they realy worth keeping? Am I ever going to understand men.
8 responses
• Pakistan
15 Jul 06
in very first i telling you that not every man are moody, just like that some womans are also very moody, but speacilty is that how to change ur husband mood to you. it is important so think about that...
• United States
15 Jul 06
I was married 11 years i just thought my ex was bipolar .One minute he was fine next he was blowing up .thank god I dont have live like that anymore .
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
13 Jul 06
I went through something similiar. I was 19 when I got married and he was a few years older. He had already gone thorugh his growing period (as my mother calls it) and knew what he wanted to do. We tried to work it out and had really good days and really bad days. When we first got married things were great. After we were married for 9 months I got pregannt and that through everyone (especially me) for a loop. When I was trying to make things work, he wasnt' and he wouldn't listen, etc. We got divorced after 6 (long) years. Honestly, I was ready to at year 2. Our issue was that we couldn't communicate. Seems like you are having the same problem. I would suggest that if you want to save your marriage that you go through couples counseling. Doing that will help you communicate better with each other.
• India
15 Jul 06
There are many reasons that u must understand, it takes some days to understand men, they are some times moody u must take them out from the state. Men like water they can easily react .
@xyrelar (25)
14 Jul 06
Sorry for the misunderstandings but I hope it's high time you studied the like and dislikes of your husband. I would encourage you to have serious discusions with him so that you are aware of his stand. Why would you like to leave him before you knew why he behaves that way? My dear marriage needs understanding of one another, respect, love care, patience etc. Encouraging you to divorce at that age wouldn't be good at all. how many patners will you have at the age of 50 if divorce after every 2 yrs? Pliz stand firm God will take you through. thanks
15 Jul 06
Everyone seem to want answers to the same question. First outweight the pros and the cons. If you have more pros ignore the moodiness. If not devise a strategy to cope. If there is none that works, weight the consequences or benefits of moving on.
• United States
13 Jul 06
How long have you been married?
13 Jul 06
May I ask your age? Sounds like the two of you are young. Neither one of you understand what a relationship is about. Have you talk with him about your feelings? If not then, Please do so now. But remember this if nothing else. A relationship is something both parities must work at.