When you see your crush??

Okay more recently I havent had any crushes. But I do think this guy at church is cute. I think he is either engaged to her or just dating. But I dont care. I am shy about stuff and I would never let them know I was interested. Mostly from past experiences. You see. In high school I had a crush on a guy, at first I thought he liked me too. Not a super cute guy but still in the popular enough group. He thought none liked him, I heard him state this. This was 10th grade. Over the summer I secretly hoped to go on a date with him but he might not know I exist. I then in the 11th grade began got up the guts and wrote this long two paged (front & back one paper) letter to him describing ALL details about him I liked (not anything dirty come on christian in a christian school! *grins*) and I gave it to him. I GAVE HIM THE LETTER! And then I ran... He ended up telling me he had a girlfriend and he never noticed me but suddenly noticed I was everywhere he was (not like stocking him but he noticed me watching him!). In the end we couldnt even be friends. I tried it. But up through graduation he was never comfortable enough to be friends with me. Which made me upset but I still loved him. Gad it was horrible! In the end, our last night together on our grad night we were spending the night the whole class at a little club thingy with bowling, games, pool, and food. Well as we were about to leave I asked for a picture with him and he agreed! I treasured that thing forever! :)) I recently found him on myspace.com I tried to add him as a friend. He's still very cute. He dindt add me back :( And sadly he's not even a christian anymore really. So I guess its good we never dated and married like I always dreamed we would. THAT was my longest crush ever, 3 yrs total!

I have to admit i have a huge crush on someone here on mylot. Not gonna say who. heck i don't even know if hes single. Every time i see him my face lights up with a huge smile. I try to always answer his discussions and his comment to mine. But i know it will never go any further than this. I can always dream though :)

Well if i meet someone I like and we r still not dating then id alternately flirt and be coy with him. Id probably use the occasional eye contact/stare to flirt and maybe ignore him once ina while. That way i would probably keep him interested in me.

oh gosh, It happened long time ago. When I saw my first crush, I tried not to look at him. But I peeked at him so that I would know what he was doing. Of course, he didn't know it but my friends knew I had a crush on him although I never talked about it (LOL) because perhaps, I acted quite weird and my face became a bit red when they were joking around about me and him (LOL). I didn't know where he was now. My crush ever approached me but I was so shy and my tongue was like a glue and I couldn't speak one single word. I have never met him again because we went to go to a different school. My heart is still pounding when typing your discussion.

well for me, i will do my best to avoid that person if i already have a relationship cos i believe it's best to be faithful to whatever relationship you are in.

Yah..i went through it also before finding my husband.Thats was 20 years ago when i have my first crush in my primary days. Those where some interesting life of a teenager. As if my hearts trembles the moment i gonna see my crush.Well i was so thoughtful to all my crushes then just a few of them....plainly giving some handmade cards during special ocassions like birthdays, valentines and even christmas. Its one way of showing my sort of like to him.:D As simple as that.

I do not have crushes any more but when I was in 6th grade I had a crush on our student teacher. She was very nice looking and I thought she was a great teacher. I liked being around her. Don't know what ever happened to her.

You will know straight away you just get that loverly warm feeling.

almost twenty years ago I married my crush. Lol we are still as much in love as i was the day we first met. Not bad considering i fight depression and we have two kids lol blessed be

I might flirt with the man that I have a crush on and then see how things go from there.

When I first met my husband I wouldn't exactly desribe it as a crush. I felt that I could communicate with him. So we let it go from there. We met for offee, meals & movies. I cooked meals at my house. We talked a lit. We shated a lot. It developed from there.

I have had my odd crush when I was young and then not so young,lol. I guess, I don't move so fast.I try to give it time .That helps me know if it's more than a crush and also to know the person more.If I am serious ,then I might take it to the next level,lol.If I try to attract someone,then they will know even when I am not overt.

Yikes, I feel goosebumps and I get nervous when i see my crush. He was the crush I had when I was still in college, I dont know, even when I see him online on yahoo I get nervous and get so happy.

if you ask my friends they'd say i look nuts when i see my crush cOz...if i dont hid,my eyes would look like somehow it would pop out...haha...i reaaly get nervous when im with my crush, sweat's drippping

if i see my crush, i let them know that i am attracted to them by flirting with them with my eyes, i look at their way and once i have the connection then i make my move to chat with the person.but it does not mean that i have to get in a relationship with the person. it is just an attraction wich i want to consumate by conversing and getting to know who is behind this wonderful site. usually, it is the opposite .

Well firstly i don't think i have any crush...my friends surely think so.... If i had one and when i will see her then i will not have the guts to go and talk to her for sure. My heartbeat would start increasing and I will try to avoid looking at her. I would give no signals, see there is no use giving any signals, it has to come naturally. If she has feelings for you then she will at least come and talk to you. I will surely make efforts to go and talk to her. If everything works fine and if she is willing then it would end up in a relationship , Otherwise, just think that this was not supposed to happen and take it sportingly and be aware of it the next time.

Hello easy, I was very shy when I had my first crush so I was just up to staring at him and glancing! and every time he will look at in our group, i will pretend I was not looking at him! In college, I waited until graduated and wrote a letter to my crush, hahaha..confident! but, i really did that for me to overcome the feelings that kept haunting me that time. We had time to talk and know each other and never end up in a relationship. He courted but I was not interested at all! not that I didn't like him but for me, it was enough to let him know that I was attracted to him before and I enjoy most our friendship!

hi. what do u mean "your crush"? in my dictionary it is a similar meaning as "crowd". Can u tell it in other words. Thanks

i just stayed just like the way i am when he's around lol luckily we ended as bf and gf

If i see my crush I do nothing.