when it says its over

Can anything sting as much as when your girlfriend says it's over and you are still deeply in love with her? Unfortunately this is a scenario that is played out many times each day leaving countless men nursing broken hearts. Your initial reaction when the woman you love tells you that she's leaving is to beg her to stay and to promise that you'll be different in the future. As wonderful as you may think those words sound to her, they can actually damage your relationship forever. When your girlfriend says it's over you need to remember one very important thing. Those are simply words and they don't necessarily reflect what she is feeling. Most of us have been guilty of saying things in the heat of the moment that we later regret. Don't assume that just because she feels that she doesn't want a future with you right now, that she'll always feel that. You must be willing to give your girlfriend time and space when she breaks up with you. Even though you'll want to smooth things over as soon as possible, you have to afford her some distance. When your girlfriend says it's over she'll most likely not answer your calls or texts. The best thing you can do in a situation like this is to stop contacting her at all. Once you stop reaching out for her, she'll start reaching out to you. It can be hard to not send her flowers or gifts to show her how much she means to you. Although it can seem endearing to send her a bouquet of flowers with a note telling her how much you still love her, it will be met with resistance. She'll likely jump to the conclusion that you think that everything that was wrong can be righted with flowers. She may take this to mean that you don't see the situation the same way she does. Gifts should be saved for when you two are back together. For now, when your girlfriend says it's over don't try romancing her back into loving you.

let it be, accept that your loved one has change in mind that she/he don't want to be a part of you anymore. Find another one, that's a lot of fishes in the sea. I know its hard to forget but we have to endure it no matter whats.