Friends what are you upto ???? Are you worth to be my frined ???

Maybe if you put some thought into your posts instead of condescending remarks, begging for responses to increase your earnings or threatening to delete people from your friends lists because they aren't worthy of you, maybe people would be more inclined to respond to you.

Samrat, I too feel your pain. I also have been plagued with very few responses to my discussions, which discourages me to post new ones. Today for example, I posted what I feel is a good topic on morals and it has been well over an hour and just now received one answer from my referral. I'm hoping my friends are out running errands and will answer later, lol. Try not to be too upset. Maybe a lot of your friends are doing something else and will reply later.

Well I am not on your friend list but I am going to try and cheer you up by responding to your discussion. I understand your feelings because I too have had many discussions unanswered. I beleive it just depends on what the people are feeling that day and even if your friend list is long many just browes through the titles and wait for one to grab their attention. Don't take it personal. Enjoy your day life is to short to spend it upset. Best wishes

Maybe they don't know what to say or are afraid their answer might offend you or they know absolutely nothing about the subject and don't want to be thought a fool by showing their ignorance. Maybe they're busy or maybe they're jealous because you got a 9 and they have an 8, 6, 5, 4, 3 and have no idea how to raise it because well, they can't put up a photo of themselves because they are not that good looking (and I'm being kind.)

I don't know, dude. If I am not responding to your discussions, there are typically 2 reasons. One - I just have no value to add to your discussion. If I have nothing to say, I think it is better to refrain. Surely you don't want me to mess up your discussions just a yes, no, maybe? Two - I have decided not to answer one-liner questions or even those with just 2 or 3 lines. The reason is that as soon as someone report them, myLot will likely delete them. This means that I would have wasted my time and effort replying to them in the first place, only to have my earnings deducted and rating dropped in the end. When the discussions are deleted, you as the discussion starter will have your earnings deleted and rating dropped as well. I have looked through your profile page and it seems that your discussions that I have not answered fall in either or both of the above mentioned categories. I apologise if you are offended by my frank thoughts. If you feel that I do not deserve to be on your friend list because of my 2 points above, you may delete me. I wish you good luck in your future endeavors. Otherwise, as long as I have something to add and it is not a one-liner discussion, you will likely see me responding - like what I do for everyone else on my friend list. Thank you for understanding.

I am new, is it anything I can help with? I am trying to learn about comunity...

I hear ya, Samrat16. Out of the 140+ friends on my list, about 20 of them are faithful and respond to my discussions that are relevant to their interests/experiences. Chin-up. It will get better.

Gee that's too bad that you are so upset. Instead of posting a discussion "for friends only" perhaps you should just send private messages. This is a public forum and anyone can respond to any discussion. You are very immature and a jerk in my opinion. I'm sure mylot wants folks like you here...lol If you don't want someone on your friends list then delete them..we don't all want to hear your complaining and see your nastiness directed toward those that have replied here that are not your frineds.. In fact if you were on my friends list..you would have been deleted today. No one has the need for your pettiness. You have probably made more enemies than friends with this post.... Sorry but it's my opinion. REACH AROUND AND GET A GRIP...

You don't have to be upset about it. If someone wants to response to your discussions, he will do it, no matter if you response to his discussions or not. I can't understand why members here always post a discussions about they don't get enough responses to their discussions. It doesn't make any diffrence now.

hi, i am not in your list but i am dropping by to reply your post. Pls be patient, maybe they are just trying to check for a catchy postings .

I try to answer to as many of my friend's discussions I can.The only ones I don't answer is where I have nothing much to add.But I agree with Joluha ,you shouldn't have left us in suspense about the photo :-P.I came up with such a plausible theory (;-P) and no one conformed it :-(.I still think it was contact lens or something on the floor,lol.

Well, you will have to wait. There are posts that are really not that appealing to everyone here. DOnt decide on things that would not be helpful for getting replies from readers.

Be patient Samrat, I'll bet a lot of people are out enjoying milder temperatures, at least here in the Midwest USA. You have a lot of fun discussions, so they'll get around to it eventually.

You know.......you cannot please everyone........ maybe your friends would like to reply in every discussion that you post but they have trouble answering to some....because maybe they cannot affix to it..they are just having a hard time trying to figure out what would they respond to you...... and of course they would choose not to reply at all than to make a response that's worth nothing at all.... for sure, everybody wants to give a valuable response. and about that deleting move you wanna do???.... I'm not against it.... but the thing is... you'll sure hurt somebody's feeling if you do. Like me for example, i don't reply most often to everybody's discussion because i'm not here all the time.... but when I do... I'd always make an effort to do so... I know it's not an excuse that's why I don't request to add friends because time will come they'll question me.... about this.... like you...about not replying... some people are just too busy,,, or better yet like I said before... they just could'nt relate on some of your topic. hope you'll understand my response. I don't mean no harm.... don't be offended alright???

Oh dear yes some people want to be our friends don't they but they never respond to our discussions, I understand how you feel and as long as you are writing more than 1-2 lines then I do not know what is wrong with your friends you are not on my friends list but if you would like to be my friend you are more than welcome and I certainly will respond to your discussions I like to work as a team responding to my friends and most of them respond to mine so I am quite lucky in that way but I would certainly help you be able to receive more responses to your discussions.

hey friend, i am working on replaying your posting, just chill alittle :) smile it would get better. dont get upset over it, not good for you.

Aah don't take it personally - i've been really busy today with friends around. I don't always get chance to check my computer at all some weekends - mainly reply to discussions when \i work which is only two and half days a week and even then it depends when boss is about. I don't want to lose you as friend (i've not got that many now) still want to know what you were doing in that photo?

i do try to respond to most coments, but i dont come ont hat often and sometimes i dont know what to say :) hope im posting enough for you lol

I am here and responding! I hope I am still worthy!!! How was the cricket? Did the correct team win? I'm not much of a sports fan so I have no clue! Take care!!!

i am new here.according to my opinion its really bad that you are doing work for there benifit and they are not even bothering for itif were at your place i definately pick some step because of this attitude.