Heart Break!

yes I'm almost 40 and have had my heartbroken about 4 times in my life, but only 1 time that really really really hurt, that still hurts me a bit to this day. It takes a long time to get over it and the only way you can do it is with time, and also I avoided the person who broke my heart, I tried not to look at pictures of them, and hid everything that they ever bought me as a gift so I woudln't have to look at it and remember the fun times in the past. I also read a lot of books on how to get over heartbreak. it helped to know I was not alone and how I was feeling was normal and that at any given time in my city or even in my neighbourhood there could be about 3-5 other people suffering the same way.

whoever you are, just let your feelings out through constructive manner like going to gym or writing poetry. I've been there before done that and moved on. there are some things in this life that are not meant to be. it's how you deal with life where in every downfall you'll learn to stand and be tougher

never mind , wounds heal with time !

The fact that it pains shows that you have loved. Go ahead and grieve. It will help to heal the pain faster. Perhaps a better one is coming along. Good Luck to you.