How do you choose your partners??

Well Im attracted to men yes by their looks but its not the most important thing. They have to have a good sense of humor and good personality. They must be careing and honest too.

I like girls who can attract me with a godd conversation, not only beauty. Beauty is but a book cover, if there´s nothing but blank pages within, what attraction will that book hold you?

I agree with what you said..guys don't seem to care about anything else except whether or not this girl is pretty...as for me, I have to know you have sense, a job, and some direction in your life..once I see all that, then I determine whether or not I am attracted to you..

Last time I started going out with someone was in 1980 .. and I liked his car heheehh !!! Since I fell out with him in 1987 I haven't bothered to look for anyone else .. very happy to just be on my own ..

To me beauty of the soul is more important than the external beauty.Wit and honesty help that extra bit.What I find magnetic is warmth of a heart.

I think there is nothing to change from her personalities,just be yourself... From the first look maybe I look from their style,speaking,habbit and how she response the situation around her,after that we can how he personalities...

I have to be honest. I was not attracted to my husband at all when I first met him all though he was very handsome and charming. I wanted something more than just another everyday guy. He was very persistant and kept asking me out. I repeatedly told him no until one day I said yes. He was charming and kept showing me the better side of things. I fell in love with him and we were married a year later. I know that a lot of people get with someone for all the wrong reasons but when I am looking for a partner, I try not to judge on looks or things that I like about them. If you judge to quick then you might get stuck with someone who will later change for the worse.

Well there are a few things that woman judge guys by they do not only judge guys by their personalities. I judge guys by their mannerims as well, and the way he looks after himself, It is great to have a man that looks after himself in the right way.

" Outer beauty fails with the test of time where as the inner beauty remains intact" I prefer a balance of the two, I am not looking for miss world or something but I would like a normal easy to go kinda girl and who is down to earth like me :) Well I have seen people pick beauty over personality but then again I have seen those very people filled with remorse and regret. Perhaps at a time I was an example too...

what you said is partly true.the fact is that outer beauty of a girl creates a spark in the mind of a boy ,but never creates a forest fire.love is one such thing(forest fire).so if people love after they understand each other or if they fall in love on the pretext of the other ones character then its LOVE.other wise its LUST.

It is natural that man fall in love with personality but have to live with character.The former is easily visible even for a second ,but the latter requires at least days to understand a character, and more so tastes changes with time

It wouldn't be real if I say that I don't get attracted through a man's physical feature at all. I mean of course you will get attracted but it woulodn't be my basis to fall. I mean, I believe that being attracted and liking or loving someone are different things. Tall men usually catches my attention especially if they have nice teeth. But I fall for men who have good sense of humor, who isn't insecure, who's understanding and sweet. Above all this, being sweet really melts my heart. And men who knows how to listen and not just talk about themselves non-stop is a big plus.

I am a guy, of course women outer beauty will interest all the guys in the world. but it still need to depend on the gilrs personality if we need to judge the girls whether she is suitable to be g.f and put in our love and time and money.

yes,But not all of them.To a certain extent.Ex:myself Of course.First to start with external personality,but after that only based on internal personality.

Many people are superficial and only see the outside of people. I like the energy of a person and notice that way first. It is a bonus if there is beauty that fades with time. Beauty is only when there is a decent person underneath it all. My hubby and I spent time together alot first and then decided to be married and have been so for 23 years to this date. Good luck to you.

i don't think that it is beauty or anything. It is more of their personalities someone who is really nice to you and is always caring for others... I mean if i had to change something about someone.. my partner that is... then i wouldn't change a thing!

I like beautiful girls. They makes me interested to come closer and make a relation to them. But I'm not a chooser. I make a relation to anyone, as a friend, no matter how ugly he/she is. I'll see her personality, is she was a good person or bad person. I'm very selective to choose my partner. I'd love a girl with good personality and have beauty face. Or, at least not ugly for me. Uhm... by the way, you are look beauty in your photo.

hello i am attrated to a woaman by her characters and and caring but becos of her beauty yes i see many girl will like a woam becos of her beauty. but as for i love my woamn becos she is caring ang and God fearing. plz tell me her u love ur husbadnd j_boyway1@yahoo.com

I think everyone is different, although I wouldn't venture to say the stereotype is baseless. I rarely ever talk to strangers myself, unless they start talking to me, and even then my answers are brief and polite. I think just about everyone (except the blind, perhaps) has a taste for beauty, as it happens to be an emotionally soothing thing. I can think of two occasions offhand where a strange girl asked for my phone number. On neither occasion did she get it. When I was a freshman in high school, there was this girl named Sarah who looked to me like a supermodel. And I imagine she could have been one, had she wanted to; she was six feet tall. Somehow, we wound up being "friends," if you'd call us that. She was constantly pushing me around. I finally told her one day that I'd had just about enough of her sh**, and walked away. I never talked to her again, and I noticed she didn't look half as attractive as she had when I'd first met her. On the other hand, I've gotten acquainted with women I'd initially ignored. Some of them have turned out to be the warmest friends a guy could ever wish to have, the kind of people you don't want to ever go away. At least one of them has eventually asked me out. I went out with her, and I was happy with her. I know this because I never wanted to avoid her, and I was always happy to get a phone call from her. Okay, she wasn't "butt ugly," but she certainly wasn't top-notch, either. And it really doesn't matter. Beauty is only skin-deep. And beauty fades with age. If one is ever to settle down with a life partner, they must accept the fact that their partner will not be beautiful forever. When I settle down, it will be with someone I think will make my home a happy place. And I'm willing to wait for her. A watched pot never boils, so I won't waste my time looking.

i would definately see the inner beauty first...beauty lies in the eye of the beholder...men r usually attracted to the outer beauty whereas we females take lot of time judging men...we give more importance to love,lots of emotions involved...men r more interested in the physical part of the relationship..