What works Better Love marriages or Arranged Marriages?

I'm not sure. I do think that my parents could have found decent person for me right off the top, but I learned a lot from my mistakes. Either way, you have to work to make a marriage work. And I mean both sides have to honor the marriage and work to keep it going. The best thing is that I have a good friend and lover with the guy that I am with now. We have been together for 16 years this April. I know that my parents never would have picked him for me. But they love him now and this is also important. Happy mylotting!!