Do you fight with your friends for silly reasons?
By crackhead
@crackhead (1826)
India
March 24, 2007 1:17pm CST
I need your guys replies to discuss upon. Did u ever fight with your friends for silly reasons? What was the reason then? Do u get back to them saying a sorry or do you continue with that anger? What will you do to convince your friend after the fight u had? Lets share our views on this topic.:-)
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6 responses
@joanna08 (394)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
My bestfriend and I fight all the time. SOmetimes for no reason at all, we say things that we dont like with each other when we fight then I'd say.. "i dont remember why where fighting at all" maybe its just our way of saying the things that we dont like about each other. :( haha... we then say our apologies and we never had that fight again. next week it would be another topic.
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@crackhead (1826)
• India
26 Mar 07
When we are close i dont think things would be that problamatic that they could end our relationship. When we are ready to apologize then there wont be any problem. Thanks for responding.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
25 Mar 07
well with friends one shares each and everything, from happiness to sorrows and also the silly things that we would never try with other people. sometimes these silly things are misunderstood or create controversy just because of mood swings or because we didn't know our friend completely. but sometimes it happens even if we know what our friend's response wil be but we still do it. the reason is simple that when we have no otherone to share our silly side or the childish child we turn to our friends that sometimes get annoying for others. like a friend said to other that why you threw off cigerette when there still were two or three puffs. the other one took it strangly and they had quite a heated argument about it. anyway, one should enjoy friends in every form.
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@crackhead (1826)
• India
26 Mar 07
Thanks for responding. We do share silly things things and we behave silly all these things are only with friends hehe .
@7nicole1 (1633)
• Canada
24 Mar 07
Ya when I was in high school I fought with 2 of my best friends. One was stupid and we ended up talking again but the other buddy of mine got caught making out with my new girlfriend. I tryed for 3 months to catch and beat him but never did. After that I seen him around but never invited him to go anywhere with me or my other buddies or ever invited him to a party again. To this day I still get pretty heated when I think about what he did to me so many years ago. You'd think I'd be over it by now but somethings are so hard to get by and I dont think we can all let somethings go.
@crackhead (1826)
• India
24 Mar 07
Its never easy to get things go by. We always thing gone bys are gone bys just concentrate on the future but its is not that easy to wipe them off. Coming to the discussion yeah even i did fight with my friend in high school for a sill reason and after some 8 years or so accidentally i came across him and we both were soo excited to meet once again and we just started talking all the tings that happend after out high school life.
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@LiminaL (164)
• Italy
24 Mar 07
HI! yes, it happened to me to quarrel with friends, but very very rarely. WHen there is some serious offence or disagreement, I rather find myself to naturally loose trust in the person. For me it is more a matter of detatchment, wich comes like a strong impulse from within. I definitely express myself about what's going on, but not in the sense of a direct attack. I have a strong sense of authonomy, and if I see that between me and a person things don't work out..well, we are not obliged to stay together, if there is a serious wrong, I'm certainly sorry for what I'm leaving behind, but I don't force the thing further. If the problem is not really too serious, I take it easy, try to make things go ok, but what happened will be part of the friendship, and might actually change it in some way.
If I know I made something wrong to a friend, I generally pay a lot of attention to compensate and repair, but some other time I don't believe in the possibility of doing this way, and I let the thing go its own way
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@crackhead (1826)
• India
26 Mar 07
Thanks for responding and that was really a nice way to describe. Good that you wont take things seriously if the problem is not that serious. and most of all you do have a lot of concern towards your friends i suppose. Its a nice habbit of trying to compensate the repair which occurs as a means of a quarrel or fight.
Offcourse i some times dont let the things go away some time or the other i will try to fix them up.
@decopil (22)
• India
24 Mar 07
I never prefer to fight with friends for silly reasons, I try to be think cool and understand the situation. Sometimes, saying 'sorry' is not worthy. Silly reasons are the cause of many broken friendships. Things which we can treat as silly and easy may not be silly on other side with whom we fight, some of them hurted more our friends and all of a sudden, they might he hate you more becaue of their previous impressions on you. That is why, besides fighting with friends, it is good to appreciate, support and loving them is best things what we can do being a good friend. I love all my friends alot. I never hurted anybody. But I received a lot of pain when some of them fought with me before... May be the take it easy, but some words are sharper to weapons which can wound our sensitive hearts which is not so easy to recover.
Be a good friend ever to keep and hold all your precious friends all over the life.
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@crackhead (1826)
• India
24 Mar 07
Sounds you are a sensitive kind of person and wish you wont get hurt. Thanks for responding.
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@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
yup i do and as always. even if it seems like a childish act, we always end up arguing with so small things that is not worth arguing. we just fight due to our own problems and emotional stress and that we don't give time for the other to explain for herself and then just ignore one another but after that we will again contact each other and say sorry for the things said and done for arguments are meant to tighten the bond of friendship.