should husband and wife be equally good-looking for a happy married life?
By eshaan
@eshaan (6188)
India
March 24, 2007 1:48pm CST
Have you ever seen a very odd pair i.e.one among the couple is more beautiful and the other is not. Won't such pairs face some problems in their life?
2 responses
@ralf_jay (213)
• Sweden
24 Mar 07
according to me beaty of a person really doesnt matter.one should look for good heart.becasue marriage is not concerned with beauty but it is more concerned with the heart of two unknown people living together to share their feelings.so my opinion is that one should never look whether its a good pair or not but its mandatory to look whether they are happy in their life or whether they love each other or not.thats the main things we should look for.
@priyankabose80 (13)
• India
24 Mar 07
i beleive that no matter how u look..your partner must look not better than you urself..
its just the issue that i personally also feel that the better your spouse looks,the more you get insecure of loosing him/her off to another..perhaps the better he/she is to look..you'll but definitely find many lingering and trying to put hands over your spouse..and trust me even if the just mentioned doesnt happen..u some day in life do fall a prey to insecurity of loosing your better looking spouse..its just so that in a human mind..its the bad that can always much easily overpower the good..and so the insecurity overpowering the trust and loyalty factor in the relationship.
now this entirely is on the level of understanding of the couple if they'd let the bad overpower the good..
i personally beleive that relationships take years to mature and this understanding comes after the coming to maturity stage is over..why think if u'd get the desired level of understanding to fight insecuirty issues..
and why take a chance..
precaution is always better than cure..
@eshaan (6188)
• India
25 Mar 07
Dear you are too young and a little immatured to discuss on such topics,if one is better than other than one of them will have the problem, according to you. I think all the people are not likely to get with someone else if his or her partner is not so good.Some of them are vrey faithful.