If im not getting any from my boyfriend or husband?

Try talking to him - remember what you may think is a hint may go right over your husbands head as us males dont always pcik up you your hints or we could misinterpret it quite easily. Find a way to tell him striaght out but also try to play to his ego - men react well to that. http://makingmoneywith.blogsome.com/

i think, having lovemaking at your situation is still dangerous, but try to understand your husband first, or try to know something about your husband aside from lacking of lovemaking.

If you're married than asking is not begging. It sounds like hints aren't working for you and you need to become less submissive and just come out and say, baby I'm h0rny! and if he says he's not interested call him out on it and ask tongue-in-cheek, "Do I need to get a boyfriend or something?" He might see you as a lactating mama instead of a hot mama now that you have a baby. This is a common thing some men go through. Only you know if he was like this before the baby or not. Whatever the case, don't be afraid of communication. If assertion doesn't work sit down and talk with him and make sure he knows you won't leave the room until you have an adult-like conversation as to what the problem is. Reaching out to another man is never the right option but using the possibility as leverage can wake some men up.