is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
By lexxie3
@lexxie3 (52)
Malaysia
March 24, 2007 9:46pm CST
yeah we all heard these before,,two couples sharing the same interest and ambitions in life,creates a perfect relationship..
but the tricky part is finding that special someone who shares
all your interest and desires in life..
he may or may never come..
the perfect partner is like a needle you have to search in a vast ocean..
well, of course,, worth the effort..
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10 responses
@bindishah (2062)
• India
26 Mar 07
I dont believe in any perfect relationships from the start. Two people can be compatible in their ambitions and stuff but that doesent mean they can be together. i believe you have to work towards a perfect relationship. There will be trying times no matter what - you just have to be together for each other. And everything works out then.
@rainbow (6761)
•
25 Mar 07
I don't think any relationship is perfect, you have to learn to deal with the annoying bits about each other, lol.
The differences between us is what makes life interesting after all.
I wouldn't look for perfection as you may cause yourself a lot of extra heartbreak looking for something you may never find.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I woudl say near perfect but there is no such thing as perfect relationship. It would take you your whole life, I believe, finding that person alive. :D
Although it is important to search for those ideals about having a relationship. If you found it and you took it you'll soon realized that its not really perfect because we were created to have flaws to be able to see the other side of things and adapt ourselves to better ourselves as we go in that relationship. Maintaining a relationship is a much more fun and challenging thing to face rather than living in a perfect relationship.
@fatal_ivory (238)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I think there is no such thing as perfect relationship. I only believe in a healthy relationship. How can there be a perfect relationship if the parties composing the said relationship is not as well perfect? I think perceiving a perfect relationship is just but an optimistic type of perception. But the realistic approach is, there is no perfect relationship, only healthy ones. One should be aware that it is not necessary that both parties share the same interests or ideology to many things. But instead, both should have an open mind and logical thinking when it comes to matters involving them. A two-way system should always be present in the relationship. A good communication link is also a plus factor in a relationship. Both party should fix all the barriers that will greatly affect their bond.
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
There is no perfect person and there is no perfect relationship. All people and relationships has its flaws but what make it somewhat ok is the ability to camouflage this flaws and make it a positive trait rather than a negative one. Just work your relationship to the best it could and you could have a near perfect one.
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
25 Mar 07
Yes, you are right that we have heard that people have perfect relationships, but sorry I do not believe this though as I believe that everybody has there ups and downs in life and as long as we can communicate properly with each other and have respect for one and other I believe this is the secret to success in any marriage to last a lifetime, we must be able to trust one another.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
I don't think that there is such thing as perfect relationship. For any relationship to last, both parties must agree to work hard to settle whatever differences that comes up and really commit to each other to always work things out no matter what. I am still sceptical that there is such thing as perfect partner also since I haven't found such myself.
@axe_effect002 (89)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
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@PATTYCAKE1979 (227)
• United States
25 Mar 07
Sure relationships can be perfect. Just not in this lifetime (smile) Just joking, serioulsy, I believe perfection is possible with two compatible mates.