I just Don't Believed in LOVE.
By afika2006
@afika2006 (19)
Malaysia
March 24, 2007 10:53pm CST
I'm 50 years old...still bachelor...now i still don't believed in love. I can't seem to get love or involved in it, does anyone know why? I am very jaded and clinical when it comes to relationships.
...love isn't real. Have you found a girl that absolutely worshipped YOU for YOU?
...of course not! Its about selfish interests and security!
Love is an illusion of hormones that dissipates with time.
Sad, but Reality.
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2 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Mar 07
Love is real .It does exist. It maybe hard to find, but it is out there.When you don't look, you'll find it.
@afika2006 (19)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 07
i believe that, some people are just made to be alone because there're either to shy and have no confidence and so no-one interested and never will be because that's the person you are.
...I don't think that i'll ever find love, it is upsetting, but i don't see myself changing and letting someone in. ...ooh...i'm 50..i'm sure many will disagree with me, and those people will be people in relationships.. what a surprise.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
25 Mar 07
you are right that there might be no girl who worshipped you for you and no girl should as worship is only for GOD. leaving aside religious factor, you can only expect an absolutely true love of a girl if you believe that there exists perfection in humans. only then that absolute definition of love can be materialized. but does love really need perfection to exist!!! are we in a situation where either there is absolute love or no love at all. i believe your answer would be NO. you can really find one who really loves you not for any selfish interest but just for you. though there are human needs and requirements but she will stand by you in difficulties and will help you come out of it. your very question shows that u believe in love. i won't explain, ask yourself.
Besides, ask another question from your innerself, Can YOU love someone. if the answer is Yes then you will find it.
@afika2006 (19)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 07
I spent a very long time-over 5 years looking for a girlfriend. I met a lot of interesting people (...hopefully in MyLot to...)and finding the right person to me...responded and feeling spontaneous. Is there a special someone out there for everyone? Should you look for her/him or if it's meant to be will they come to you?
..several disaster relationships is decided to give up in love. -maybe " I've never been in love and have never ever had a girlfriend, i don't think that you can go and find love because you can't just pick and choose who to like, they obviously have to like you back.
..so its more painful when you look for it and realise you're never going to HAVE IT.
