for all the mothers out there

I would want my son to be whatever he wants to be. We will support him in anything and everything he does and as long as he is happy, then we are happy. I don't want to force him to do things or else he may rebel or have an unhappy life growing up by trying to please us.

I have always told my children they could be whatever they wanted when they grow up. I will stand by their decisions no matter what. I may not be pleased with whatever they decide but as long as they are happy and are making a decent living nothing else matters. If they aren't making a decent living but are genuinely happy, I'm still ok with that too.

i would guid my children in all the decide. i can only help them to be good human beens and help and be there for them when they make there life. i want the best for them and like all parents want them to be all that they can be.

To me no matter what my kids decide to be when they grow up I am still their mom and I will still love them.I think it is bad to make children want what you would want them to be.A child when it grows up should be able to make their own decisons.Its okay to put in some imput or advice but to push a child is not good.I think that is why everyone is unique if we had childrens parents having them to be what they want them to be instead of what the child wants to be ,then the child will not be happy.

I would instill in them good values. In turn I'd trust their decision making because I have faith in what I have taught them and I know that they won't steer too far from from the truth. The bible tells us to train a child up in the way that they should and they will never depart from it. I just have to trust that what I have put in my children will reap a reward.

I have no idea, but my little girl can be whatever she wants. I just want her to be happy. I have no desire to try and force her to do what I think she should do.

I would want them to be whatever would make them happy. My oldest son wants to be in law enforcement, I'd rather he was a lawyer. (he's 16) Its safer, but if thats where he feels he can make a difference than so be it. My second son decided law enforcement is too dangerous (he's 11) and so now he wants to be an oceanographer. I'm not sure if he even knows what it is. My daughter (she's 9) said she isn't getting married, she isn't having kids and she isn't going to work. She plans on living with her brother (the 11 year old) and having garage sales to make money. But he told her he may have a wife and they won't want her to live with them. So I'm not sure what she's going to do. Actually I can see her doing something in the area of fashion.

Well, both my kids love dancing and singing but each of em have different traits. I imagine my daughter would become a teacher someday coz she really loves to teach and my son, I imagine him to be a policeman someday. But no matter what happens whatever they choose to be I'll just support them all the way. Because for me what they want is important. We as parents can't just inject things that we want them to be because then we are only reliving what we had wanted in the past and not giving them any freedom to choose what they want.